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writes:[OP original title]I'm 18 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. For a long time we were very sexual and I was always wet, very wet. Now, I'm never wet. Sometimes, I'll try touching myself before sex but it doesn't work. He makes me horny and i always want him, but i can't get wet. I know it might be because we have a rocky relationship and sometimes i don't feel good enough for him, mostly because our sex is always the same but its making it worse. I don't know why i dont get wet but its keeping me from being sexually satisfied. I need to know why or what I can do to help it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): I had the same problem it has to be something in head stopping you because I was w|this boy for almost 3 years we were soo in love he was my first but we started having problems towards the end & I just couldn't stay wet an still to this day we'll hangout an we'll start to have sex an I'm just not into it how I'd like to be because in my head I kept thinking about our problems
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 It's in your head...........the brain is the largest and most important sex organ. You are only 18 so you should not have any physical problems. To get wet you have to be stimulated both mentally and physically. Something is not happening right. Are there issues that need to dealt with? Does he not put too much effort into foreplay? Foreplay doesn't just happen once you're in bed. The moment you see each other, the way you talk to each other, the things you talk about, the hugs, kisses, lack of.., all that small stuff adds up and matters. How does he kiss you?is it tender and loving or not? Are you going through a hard time/dealing with a lot of stress? if that is the case then all that stuff needs to be addressed!Good luck hun
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Could it be that you need to go to your doctor? If you're getting aroused and your sex life is still making you hot, you might want to just check and make sure you are cootie-free. Some times overlooked infections can result in dryness.
But, if it's not medical then girlfriend, this is nothing a little lube can't solve. Pop in to any adult store, grocery store or drug store and they'll be sure to have some. Good luck, sweet!!
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