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writes:I don't like my boyfriends friends! My boyfriend has taken me around them, and I have tried to enjoy myself but they are the type who, if they don't know you, they don't really say anything to you. This is a problem because most of the time, my Bf goes out with his friends and their girlfriends and I stay at home because I don't feel comfortable around them. I am a very social person, and I am tired of sitting around the house while he goes out with them. Please help! I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1 +, writes (24 May 2007):
 Have your own friends come along, so that your friends can get to know him and his friends. At the same time, don't do it all the time, because he needs space.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 I know what you mean about feeling uncomfortable around your boyfriend's friends. I've been there too.
My advice to you would be to go out with your own friends instead. I bet having a boyfriend takes a chunk out of the time you used to spend with your own friends while you were single, so now you can spend more time with them.
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