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female
age
41-50,
*oserosen
writes:My husband does not love me. He is searching young girls for long term relationship keeping our marriage as it. He loves my education, property, and background, not me. He always harass me in front of his family and close friends. When I asked for divorce he neglect for it. He worries if he divorce me he need to give property to me. Should I divorce him or go along with this marriage.My husband wants to have children with his other wife. In Nepal, if there are no children after 10 years of marriage the man can marry another wife.He is denying to have children with me and waiting to make 10 years of our marriage. I have a phD. He thinks I can earn and survive on my own. He is waiting to marry another girl after 10 years of our marriage.Now he is in Phillipines as a student for 2 more years. He is a secrete playboy. I am unable to get divorce in my country. What can I do?Is there any rule in phillipine that I can make him to return Nepal for divorce?
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (10 September 2011):
 You're welcome.
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reader, roserosen +, writes (8 September 2011):
roserosen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Ciar and empty-1, Thank you for your suggestion.
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reader, Ciar + ♥, writes (6 September 2011):
Have you actually spoken to a lawyer about this? It sounds like you're making assumptions based on fear.
If you have the means to get out of this marriage, and I think you do, then end it. You're a young woman and this is no way to spend the rest of your life.
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reader, empty-1  +, writes (5 September 2011):
I am sorry to sound condescending, as I really do not mean this in that light, but if you are a PHD educated individual, you should have enough of a basic understanding of public policy and how the system in your country works to know the answer to those questions better than any of us. Even if your degrees are in fields far removed from law and politic, there is a certain degree of awareness, alertness, and intelligent consideration one gives to the rule structures that govern or lives. This increases with education.You need a good lawyer in your own country to answer your questions. There may be the possibility of filing for divorce in his absence based on abandonment. If you have any sort of evidence at all that he either has actively cheated, or has advertised for another relationship, then there may also be an infidelity cause for action.There may also be standing extradition agreements between Nepal and the Phillipines. Considering most of the people who see this question on Dear Cupid aren't from either of those places, we're going to have a very hard time answering these questions.You need to sort your situation out with a lawyer. There really is no substitute at all in your circumstance.
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