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*harlie.
writes:About 2 years ago I met a girl with more confidence, charisma, personality and sense than any girl ive ever known. On top of that shes stunningly good looking. She became a really close friend of mine for about a year. The closest friend I think iv ever had. Fairly soon, every time I spoke to her I never wanted her to leave. Ever. If I didn’t see her or talk to her for a few days I’d become frustrated as she would be the only thing on my mind and hate her for making feel that way. Even though she clearly never intended to or even knew how I felt about her. Is that love? I don’t know. But I know that when I left school and started seeing and contacting her ever less frequently. That feeling of not being able to be with her and not having any contact with her tore me apart. It’s the most torturous and unrelenting emotion I have experienced. I’m sure lots of people can relate?Last night she came out for my 18th birthday with me. I had forgotten how good the feeling of having her to myself really was. And that reminded me how hard it hurt after aswell. I’ve noticed I’ve begun to start thinking of her like I used to.So, should I push the best friend I’ve had away even though I love spending time with her and the feeling of having her on my arm if we go out or should I try and have a friendly relationship like we used to at the risk of getting so messed up about her again? Knowing that we will most likely never be anything more than good friends.Thanks, Charlie
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reader, guccigirl89  +, writes (13 March 2009):
My friend feels the exact say way about me. Since he's told me how he felt, i actually like him a little also. But let her know how you feel!
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