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writes:Hey all, well here I go again with my problem. Ive already posted about this before, but Im still not feeling any better. Basically, I just cannot get over someone who I never really had in the first place. I met him at new year, we started seeing each other until 2 weeks ago when he had to go back to where hes based (in the army) which is at the opposite end of the country to where I live. We planned to have a LDR, but he got cold feet saying he didnt want to because of the distance. To be fair, in my heart I knew it wouldnt of worked either. I told him I was gutted, he said he was too. There was no hard feelings though, because I know that at the end of the day it wouldnt of worked. So we continued to speak on facebook and stuff. But I still want him so bad. Ive never met anyone like him before. He was everything that I liked. My friends have told me to think about the bad things about him. But there werent any. And its not like hes done anything nasty to me, to give me a reason to hate him, which would be so much easier. Ive had advice like 'occupy yourself', spend time with friends and stuff but he still manages to be on my mind. And the sad fact is that I never really knew him. We were only seeing each other for a few weeks. I just cant get over him. Im scared that I will become really depressed over this. I had a bad relationship before with a guy who hurt me badly, and it took me years to fully get over it.
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reader, mollusc +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Tell him how you feel, it seems hard but sometimes it helps? Maybe getting it out to him will make you feel like it is more two sided and he is more involved. Maybe if he says he likes you too them you can have a relationship but if he says it wont work then you have something to help you get over it?
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