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writes:Hi I recently started having sex for the first time, we had been doing stuff for a while - but wanted to make sure we were both ready before going the whole way. Before when we were doing stuff i never had trouble getting wet - but since we've been having sex i have found it much harder to become aroused in this way. We have been using a small amount of a water-based lubricant with condoms so far - and it has not been painful or uncomfortable; but without lube it has been really painful!neither me or my boyfriend enjoy using lube - (we both feel its a bit artificial), but at the same time we dont want the sex to be painful for me. Are there any methods/ways to make me produce more (or the amount i did previously) so its more comfortable?? Also - are there any reasons why im suddenly producing less??Thanks
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reader, cutiepie +, writes (29 December 2006):
if you had no problem previously then it is most likely that the pressure of getting wet is what's preventing it. I would sugest spending anything upto 30 mins of foreplay as some women can take a long time to get turned on, also try spending time with foreplay or give each other a massage without the pressure of it having to lead anyfurther, this should help remedy the problem. if this continues for a long time see your gp as in rare ocasions it can hint at something more serious
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (29 December 2006):
 You may be putting to much pressure on yourself and not relaxing enough.
Try foreplay for longer before penetration. Give it time as you may need more practice.
If you are still concerned, best advice is to visit GP.
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