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writes:About a year ago, I broke up with my bf of 5 yrs. I was going through a really hard time, we just had a baby, and i was very confused about if i wanted to be with him. A couple of months after the break up, I started dating this guy. He was great!!! But I started missing my ex a lot. I never told him how I felt because I didnt wanna hurt the new guy. I put myself through a lot of emotional hell bc of this. Eventually I did tell him how I felt, but it was too late. He has been in a relationship now for 4 months with a girl he met online. He's already moved in with her. I still love him. He says he doesnt have feelings for me and blah blah blah,i know that he does they just might be feelings that he doesnt want. I just wanna know if the relationship he's in now is real or rebound? And if its really over? And what I can do to win his heart back?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 November 2008):
4 months is too long for rebound.
I think he has moved on hun, just like you did when you broke up with him. It's not surprising really.
I think you just have to hang on and be civil about him seeing his child and if he breaks up with his new girl then you will have to see if he will give you another chance then.
You had your relationship with someone else, he is having his, you can't just have everything your own way.
Good Luck!! xx
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