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writes:Hello! I am new to this site. I am hoping that someone would advise me on what to do. I have been dating this guy since a year. I have known him since 6 years. We have many common friends and I know a lot of his cousins. Everything was absolutely great in the beginning.He suddenly started distancing himself from me after a few months. The number of calls and the meetings reduced. He kept promising that he would spend more time with me but he never did. He was always very nice to me though and we always had a great time together.I finally broke up with him a month back because I felt he wasnt spending enough time with me and wasnt giving me much of importance in his life. But i am really missing him now and I want him back. I know it was my mistake, maybe I should have been more patient with him. He messages me randomly sometimes with just a Hi, but after I reply to him, he never does reply back! I tried sending him messages, but he never replies.I dont know what to do. We have had such fights before, and we made up each time. But this time, its seems different. We always had a amazing time with each other, he even told me he loved me(a lot of times) and I always felt great to be with him. The sad part is that I realised how much I loved him only after I broke with him. I never knew I would feel this way. It hurts, and I have no idea what to do! Should I ask him for a second chance? I am sure that we can definitely make it work.I have been in 5 relationships before, but after each relationship ended I never wanted to get back into it again. But its so different this time. I really feel he is The One for me. I felt so special with him. Maybe I shouldnt have got all worked up. I want him back in my life. What do I do? Should i apologize to him and ask him for another chance? Or should I just forget it and move on???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers!
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reader, eddie1000 +, writes (7 November 2009):
no, dont ask him for a second chance. you want him to miss you, always keep the line of communication open ,meaning if he calls answer, text when he text you but let him initiate let him show you he wants you or the relationship back first then you can start showing how you feel about him again and if doesnt move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould I ask him for a second chance before moving on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): "He suddenly started distancing himself from me after a few months. The number of calls and the meetings reduced. He kept promising that he would spend more time with me but he never did."Move on babes, he was already loosing interest in your relationship and moving away from you. He can't give you what you need, he dosen't feel the same way that you do. You know this. He's not the right guy for you, if he was, he'd treat you like a princess, and want to spend all his free time with you, you wouldn't have to beg. That's why you finnished with him remember, he wasn't treating you right.
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reader, eddie1000 +, writes (6 November 2009):
time to move on, he has and if he wants the relationship back he will come for you, let him miss you ,he knows where you are and will realize what you meant to him and if not then by moving on you are preparing for your new love good luck
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