A
female
age
,
anonymous
writes:i have been seeing this guy for 6 months,he is 40 i'm 44 we get on quite well,only he trys to make me jealous,tells me not to get attached to him,changes his mind from one week to the next,i finished with him friday night,but saturday night he is txting me,then he was off with me last night,so i told him today i wasnt too pleased with the way he talked to me, and he says if he started being nasty to me i might tell him to f**k off, i said do you really want that and he justs laughs. if he really wanted that then why txt me after i told him friday i didnt want to see him anymore. i just dont get it.he is a heavy pot smoker,could this have anything to do with it.he has never been married, i have been twice.
View related questions:
jealous, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Cateyes  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Clue one not to be with him....he is 40 and still smokes pot.(he should have "outgrown" this) Clue two not to be with him...wishy washy and no respect towards you. I wouldn't return any text's or calls and I would walk away from him and meet someone else. There is probably a reason why he has never married...no one can put up with him. YOU WILL meet someone else and don't settle for less...you are worth it and don't ever forget it! If he's not a gentleman, then he's not worth going out with. Doesn't matter the age, what matters is what kind of person they are inside. Best Wishes and Good Luck!!!
A
male
reader, DKR +, writes (8 May 2007):
 i would certainly say the pot could play a part in it. I believe from what you've said that a soulution to the problem would have to start with the pot. If he's a heavy user and then it can effect everything wether he's high or not. If he's willing to get help to get off the stuff then the relationship is worth trying to save, if not, walk away. These drugs are illeagle for a reason and it's not to be a party-pooper.
...............................
|
