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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I believe my ex is my ex because he has drawn some incorrect conclusions of me from our time apart, when I have had to go away to college and make a new life for myself. Now I am coming back home to go to school and he is freaked out at my decision.Should I address these myths and knock them off, or let my actions speak for themselves. I feel that they mostly have to do with materialism, which for me is not so important to me but with the distance we've had and moving into a new *and empty* apartment I think he's drawn the conclusion that I'm crazy about shopping and justing after objects...when indeed I'm not, that's just something that omes with the territory.Advise? Please?
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 He is freaked out by your decision to split up with him? How long were you and him apart? Did you live together before you left or have you just moved into this apartment recently? Did you both keep in touch regularly while you were gone? How long were you together?
Sorry for all the questions but it will help me give you the correct advice. Get back to me and we'll see if we can get this sorted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to add that we are on good terms, I've even visited him a few times in the past few months we haven't been together and we talk casually.
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