I asked him to forgive me, but now, he won't contact me! What can I do?

A female age 51-59, *attyb writes:

I met my boyfriend from his cousin, my sister was married to her husband's brother. He hired me to clean his house almost 3 years ago. He wanted to ask me out last summer, but he didn't know how i would feel about it. I live with my sister and last july our air conditioner went out he asked me to move in with him so i asked him out for pizza. Since then we have been dating up intil now. Everything was magical we spent the weekends together he would cook for me, take me out for dinner, spent the holidays together with his family and he baught me jewelry and clothes. He is 60 and I am 45 he has never been married or had children. His cousins said he has never been in a relationship very long. He was making plans with me when he retires and said i didn't have to work anymore he would take care of me. Last month I had a panic attack and called up his work pretending to be an employee to find out his guest list, he is vice president of corporate security at a bank and he said he had to work so they wouldn't have to hire police. He called me up when he got home and said he got a message. I told him it was me and said i was sorry that i would never doubt him again and can he forgive me. he said i have to think about it and then he said no he didn't want to say anything he would talk to me later. that monday i went to clean his house and he locked his doors, i called his cell phone the next day but didn't leave a message my name shows up on his caller i'd he hasn't called me in a month. when i talked to his cousin i also clean his house she said he is selfish with a big ego, and that he would punish me but still be my friend. i don't know what to think, i wish he could forgive me and talk to me. i was previously married for 10 years and was in a abusive marriage and suffered from depression.

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