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writes:i am married for 3 n half years and hv a 7mnth old son. On several occassions my husband beat me up and forced on me. B4 having baby he made me undergo pregnancy termination twice and md me pregnant recently by forcing sex without protection bt i had a miscarriage. I had a good job bt made2resign n nw i am at home taking his orders and getting forced in bed. From day i resigned4m job he is more rude2me. I feel so humiliating the way he treats me4sex. Recently he beat me up n choked me4coming in front in low neck dress whn he was talking2his chauffer. He only chose the dress for me. Yestrday he beat me black n blue n did sex so rough to me that i cant walk all bcz isaid no4anal sex. Al i have is a chat friend 4m diff continent. I have a step mom n dad who dnt care much so i nvr shared anythg2them. My husband is influential and the country ibelong here money matters nt justice and i cant leave house without a security. I feel trapped want to run away but ihave a baby so i am quiet docile saying yes to everythg my husband demands so that he dont hurt me.
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reader, CupidsPrincess  +, writes (18 September 2010):
You don't have to be docile. there is no point in suffering quietly if your husband acts unreasonably assualting you both mentally and physically. as the other answerer said talk to your step mom and dad about your situation.
can you work again? if yes, then think of going in separate ways and see if it can bring your husband any senses. it is all easier said than done but sit down, think and find out a solution as such men hardly come back to sanity. india may lag behind when it comes to justice. but you have a family court and counselors who can help you. get out, talk to people and do the needful. you have every right to lead a happy life. only because you are married you don't have to suffer.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Take your baby to visit your step mom and dad. Tell them what is happening. I'm sure once they listen to your story they will help you.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 September 2010):
 There has to be someone you can turn to. A friend? The police? You cannot raise a child with this man and you do not deserve this kind of humiliating torture. Take all the money you can and run, if you can, try and find a friend or turn to your family. You are NEVER helpless, there will be someone who can help you and your child. Good luck, be safe.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): One of the options you have is to get some friend/relative (say a cousin) to help you, get you out of that place, board you for a few weeks while you go find a job again and try to be independent all over again. That would help you file for divorce and custody of your child and start your life fresh all over again. There are not too many options you have, you need to get out of that place ASAP. Yes, money matters in India but there are a few women organizations who would help you fight this with adequate muscle power. Please check http://www.indianchild.com/women_ngos_in_india.htm for the right woman's organization in your city.
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