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writes:I know i sound paranoid but..., its summer break and i miss the guy im with, we haven't been speaking as often,n i guess its because its summer break and hes got a guest at home but still... i just hope we're not drifting apart... hes also my best friend and i dont want to loose him, should i just try to go on with the summer vacation n let him go on with his????
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (29 July 2011):
 Just get on with your holiday, enjoy yourself but send him the odd text now and again. If you concentrate on your holiday, the time will fly by and you will soon be back together again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2011): When you're a couple, if you aren't cohabiting or married the lives you lead are naturally more separate to an extent, and there'll inevitably be the odd period of time when your partner doesn't feature so prominently in your life. I'm sure, as you yourself have said, your guy is simply preoccupied with other things at the moment - and if you aren't as busy as him you'll notice his absence all the more! Yes, carry on with your respective summers but do try to make time for one another too. If it'll set your mind at rest, drop him a text or something to ask if he has a few hours free one day soon for a catch-up. Far from feeling intruded upon, chances are he'll be flattered to know you're missing him and want to see him :) Either way though, I doubt there's anything to worry about. Being apart for a while proves that you can maintain a sense of independence even within a relationship, if nothing else. Good luck and take care x
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