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writes:Ok here goes; I have been with my boyfriend (soon to be fiance) for almost three years. We have a young child with one on the way. We are having some sexual problems. When we first got together it was fine. Now I have gotten to the point I dont want anything and I get nothing out of sex with him. I cant even get turned on. I love him but i think when we first got together he was a virgin and the only time I brought it up he thought I was joking even though i told him i wasn't. I cant get a straight answer out of him. So I think he is a lot more inexperienced than me. I am really bored with sex and want to fix our love life. Please help. What can I do to get our flare back?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 March 2010):
You need to spend some time finding out what works for you. He's not a mind reader, so won't know what you want unless you tell him. So spend time getting to know your own body and what you like, and then gently show him what you like.
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