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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was with my gf for 7 years and all of a sudden out of no where after this past xmas she turned around and left me saying she didn't feel the same and wasn't happy (mind you no signs of being unhappy) but needed to know if she was going to miss me...in turn I did the wrong thing for 3 weeks calling crying screaming etc. Then I finally stoped. She called a few times for $ but I didn't give it to her. We then haven't had contact for about two months and this past saturday we went out for a mutual friends birthday and I totally did not acknowledge her presence.and had a great time ..she then calls me monday saying " you know we dated for 7 years and find it odd and strange we didn't say hello to eachother" I answerd it is what it is and said I had a greatime reagardles of us talking or not she then went into telling me her "plans" for the next several mnths vacations stating is this normal behavior etc and I replied and as long as your having fun and enjoying yourself yes live it up. that was the conversation...I don't get it at first she didn't want to be in contact with me now she goes and does this.Why would it bother her if she was the one that didn't want me in her life.To me there is no possible way a frndship will work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): To Honeypie... If she didn't want me to be part of her life when she made this decision why decide three months later that us not acknowledging eachother was wrong remember this was her decision and she knew what she was throwing away. I would take her back in a minute but am not going to run after her nor ask her to come back. I feel I'm either part of your life completly or not at all no ifs and or buts. Another thing it was more then a relationship family,friends and a whole lot of things were effected by the split. All her family wants is me back in her life cause she has been acting a fool.She knows she tossed a great man into the single Market.. Any way hope she comes back before its too late! Original poster
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (25 March 2010):
 She wants to share her life with you due to your past, I think for some women it is pretty normal. You Are considered "safe" because she knows you.
I don't know if it is because she wants you back or just back in her life, either way I don't think it matters, if you have no interest in keeping in contact, then I think you should stick to your guns.
I'm big on leaving the Ex's in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): I assume your ex was quite young when you got together... Her leaving you may have just been that she wanted to see what it was like to be either single or indeed see other guys.Recently my ex left me after saying she wanted to know what it was like to be single. Truth was she was had just turned 18 when she met me and we've been together for 6 n half years when she left me, and she just wanted to see other guys.Like you, things were good... we were infact trying for a baby right up until 2 weeks before we split up, where she showed me no emotional or physical love.She made a mistake, time for her to move on and learn from it. You sound like you're moving on in the right direction anyway, but keep going you'll find a girl who'll want you and want only you for life. Good luck :)
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