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writes:hi, recently my girlfriend and i have been talkin and i learned she was still physically attracted 2 him..as he is her usuall type...tall head full of hair 6 pack etc....while i am short around 5 6 and built but stocky ...i am kind of feeling a little self conciosous about this...what should i do? she says she loves me and i no that she is physically atrracted 2 me but still i am confused
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 i personally do not have a 'type'. i love my boyfriend completely and i think he is extremely good looking, but yes i still think people from my past are good looking. Think about it, when he was her boyfriend, she would have obviously been attracted to him, and if she thought he was good looking before yes she will think so now, that doesnt mean she still has feelings for him.
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reader, Dom123  +, writes (17 July 2009):
Well, I am a lesbian myself, but I do know how to keep women happy. Try and talk to her about it. But, if your a bit shy to do that, suggest some new moves to do with her or ask her to come to bed more often. Use sex toys. Tie each other up, do roleplay. Keep it hot. Do whatever it takes if you really love her and don't want to lose her. Lick suck bite. So to a sex shop and buy some crotchless knickers. They always come in handy. Get a vibrating penis. Anything really, just spice it up a bit. I am sure that she loves you. Women often find smaller men more attractive in bed. Lie on top of her. Get some new positions. Just make sure that she's the centre of attention. To do this, number 68 is a good position, this is where the male is lying down on the bed, sofa etc. on his back and the woman is on top of him with her head near his penis. The male then licks her vagina. This is a good move all around. I hope that was helpful.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 I wouldn`t worry to much into this.It was untactful of her to tell you this but it really doesn`t mean anything.Be honest with yourself.Is your gf the only girl you find attractive?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (17 July 2009):
 first of all by him i think you mean an ex right?
well really she shouldn't be with you no offence if she's still into her ex because obviously it's causing you paranoia that she'll leave you.
but if she's saying she loves you and everything else then whats to worry about?
i mean you say she's physically attracted to you but what about your personality?
does she like you for yourself? or the way you look?
talk to her about this if it's bothering you tell her how she is making you feel insecure and that you don't want to lose her.
Hope this helps :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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