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writes:I am in love with this girl but she hates me now. You see, I took advantage of the feelings she had for me and made her do something she never wanted to do. I didn't mean to. She means the world to me and I love her and she loved me too. Now she won't talk to me or acknowledge the fact that I exist and completely shuts me off. I tried talking/apologizing but she won't listen. She means the world to me and I don't know what do do without her /3 Please help? ... Reply to this Question
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (10 January 2013):
Completely shutting you off and not acknowledging your existence means you are through.
Besides, what you're feeling is the pain of rejection, it's not your heartbreak. At least you recognized you screwed up, now recognize you can't fix it and move on.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 January 2013):
 What do you do?
You realize that taking advantage of another human being has consequences, treating others in a matter you would not want to be treated yourself.
YOU learn from this.
Obviously she DIDN'T mean the world to you or you wouldn't have done what you did.
So let her go. Become a better person. Move on.
Karma is a bitch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2013): "I took advantage of the feelings she had for me and made her do something she never wanted to do. I didn't mean to."
Yes you did.
"She means the world to me and I love her"
No you don't.
"I don't know what do do without her"
Realize that actions have irrevocable consequences and ripple effects, understand the price of your selfishness and thoughtlessness, have the decency to completely disassociate yourself from her so she can heal and hopefully move on, and learn from your mistake by always remembering what you lost from this one.
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