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writes:Alright, so recently I've had this very strong urge in wanting to have sex with this guy who I have thought has been soo good looking/hot. but the thing is, he's a total douche bag! And I am no way into his douche bag ways, but he has a good personality and beyondddd good looks. and he just happens to be a jerk. and for some reason, i've been wanting him so bad! I use to hate him, but then i hung out with him (and other people) and i cant stop thinking about him (more like his hotness lol). I know if I had sex with him, it'd blow up in my face, i would regret it ( and yes i am a virgin) and he wouldnt care, and all that..but i dont know! For some reason, I'm just sooo blinded by his looks, its making me very veryyy very physically and sexually attracted to him, like I wanna do stuff with him so bad. But i dont know what to do. What do you think I should do? Thanks for any responses Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):
You are being immature.
You know you should not mess with him. But you are headed towards it anyway because your hormones are overriding your self-respect and common sense. This is immaturity.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 August 2010):
Basically, you fancy a bad boy. Well, if you do anything with a bad boy, you can't complain when it's thrown back at you. So if you wish to preserve your reputation and dignity, don't touch him. If you do have sex with him, it will come out and he'll make fun of you along with everyone else. Bad boys may appear good looking, interesting and fun. But you'll be the one crying when it goes wrong. For your sake, don't bother with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): First, how can he have a good personality if hes a douche bag? Second if youre a virgin and you know that youll regret it if you have sex w/ him and that he wont care, you pretty much answered your own question. I dont think you should have sex w/ this guy. Youre 1st time should be w/ someone who loves you emotionally and who you feel the same way, not beacuse hes "Hot". Good Luck!
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reader, Waiting for an angel +, writes (7 August 2010):
he'll only use you i mean you're saying hes full of shit why waste your time girl im sure you can find a good looking guy that can treat you good as wee
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (7 August 2010):
I don't know why you need our advice! you answered it yourself!! so now it's up to you to see where this douche bag takes you? if you should change your mind? it isn't just about sex! but thats right you are young and that is what girls your age only has on there mind!
Good Luck!
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