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*ilyNightwater
writes:Trying to figure out if this guy likes me. I am attracted to him, and want to make sure I am reading his signals correctly. I work with this guy and we see each other about 5-7 times a day. All are for very short times of 1-3 minutes each. He started out just saying hi as he walked past. He then started making jokes about my shirts (I wear funny t-shirts to work). If he did not stop to talk to me, he would hit my station that I work at to make me look at him and then would say hi and smile as he went on his way. He smiles at me almost everytime he sees me (the other times he seems to ignore me, but this is not very often). He started telling me stories about his life and asks me about my life so we trade stories now. He does whatever he can to make me laugh. There were two days when I was really sick at work that he really seemed to like me. He came up to me and asked "Who legs do I have to break? What's wrong?" I told him I was just feeling awful and he offered everything he could. He also tried to cheer me up all day. He even sang "Cheer up, Charlie. You'll get the Golden Ticket" from Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. Everytime he stops to talk to me, he walks up to me and bumps me with his hip. The other day we had a severe weather drill and we had to sit in a tunnel and I ended up across the hall from him. He stuck his empty candy wrappers down the back of my shirt. He does flirt with other girls but I think it is in a different way. (He was talking to my friend and asked her to make out with him, but he has never done that to me. He seems to be more respectful than that to me.) After the severe weather test, he came up to me another day and stood with his chest against me and asked if he was too close for comfort. I said no, becuase I really did not have a problem with him being that close.I reminded him that he owed me a story and he told me that he wanted to tell me outside of work and take the time to give me the details that went with the story. We did talk for a few minutes on the way out of work, but he had to leave to pick up his kids. I feel very strongly that he likes me, but would like some confirmation. It would really put my mind at ease. Thanks for the help.
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reader, LilyNightwater +, writes (27 March 2011):
LilyNightwater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have not verified his availability as of yet. I would never do anything with a married, separated, or man in a current relationship. I agree that it would be a lot of needless pain. Thank you so much for your answer. It is just really nice to have my feelings confirmed. I do not have a lot of people that I feel I can ask. Just nice to know for sure :)
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reader, Abella +, writes (27 March 2011):
 he sounds so much fun, i can understand why you are attracted to him. And he is certainly interested in you.
But, first 'he had to pick up his kids'
So he does have children.
Is he married, in a relationship, separated but not divorced, a widower, or divorced?
A single man to me means a man who has never married. But if he has not married, but has had children (and thus did have a relationship) then i usually think of such a man as quasi-separated from his last relationship if he is no longer with his last live in relationship
Though correctly a separated man means a man who has left his marriage but has not yet legally divorced.
Be very certain about his availability.
Never waste your time with a married man, a separated man or a man in a current relationship. Because it is too much pain to saddle yourself with.
Now it is certain that he likes you.
If he is not in a relationship and is divorced or a widower go for it.
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