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*ori n.
writes:ummmm ok this is a weird question but like im a big tomboy most of my friends are guys and i luv tossing the football and wrestling and stuff like that but i still wear makeup and crap......do guys like that or care about that cuz i havnt hade an actuall bf for like ever and im not buttugly so idk what the deal is???????????????????????????? Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 It is ok to be a tomboy...I was definitely a tomboy at your age and I still am to a certain extent! Did it stop me having boyfriends, getting married etc...no! In my teenage years I did get teased by boys about not being very girly - I would only wear dresses and nail-varnish at gun point! My husband says the only time he ever saw me in a dress was on our wedding day (he is not wrong). However, upon reflection I think the teasing is more about adolescent male insecurity than anything to do with what I wore or personal interests. My advice to you would be DON'T CHANGE - it will make you unhappy and you shouldn't be bending to the whims of boys shallow demands of what a girl should be like. Wait until you find someone who likes you just for you - footballs and all.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Congratulations Tori, only those who know who they are get what they want. Trust me you will be amazed to realize that there are many guyz who dont care whether you are atomboy or not. As long as you keep looking good and femininne, a guy who loves you wouldnt care. Personnaly i always look out for tomboyz beacuse i find them more chic than most girls.
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reader, Beleren +, writes (20 July 2009):
some guys like the girly girls and some like the tomboys i prefer the tomboy type. but most guys will just see u as a friend normally if there is a guy u like then you will have to ask him out
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