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*iam73
writes:Hey guys...first time writer.....well here goes....My name's Liam, live in Australia, in Year 12 (Senior Year), im a decent looking guy, i have a great personality, i try to do the right thing everytime, always treat girls nice, but i am yet to have kissed a girl or have a girlfriend. This is especially painful for me emotionally and metally as most of my mates have gf's and seem extremely happy.....a happyness i am yet to have experienced.....I am a bit shy when it comes to the opposite sex but dont find it that hard to talk to chicks.... I also have alot of girl mates that like me but only as a friend....Any help that could be given would be greatly appreciated.....Cheers, Liam
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reader, Liam73 +, writes (2 June 2007):
Liam73 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNah dude its none of that stuff.....
i guess i just dont have that spark taht they want.....
its not like im desperate or anything....i just want that companionship and someone who loves me for who i am....
is that to much to ask?
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reader, confusedsoul  +, writes (21 May 2007):
Do you fear that you would not get it first time right when you are to kiss your girl or even have sex with her? I guess it stems from your perfectionistic expectations from yourself. What if you mess up the first time you kiss her? You would embarass yourself, is it? Or do you fear your girl would leave you, judge you, reject you or criticize you? Do you overrate the idea of being able to tolerate that mental frustration? I guess this are some questions that could be pondered about..
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2007): you sound perfect! If you give it time, you are bound to meet some-one who is right for you, just because everyone else has bf's and gf's all the time, doesn't mean they're happy and when they arrive in a relationship with some-one who they think they truly love, they're going to have a lot of baggage from past relatinships, unlike you. just give it time.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (20 May 2007):
 Look at it this way - you're saving yourself for something great. A lot of people go through high school and college, making out and having sex with random people. They wake up, and feel disgusted with themselves the next day. You've been lucky enough to save yourself for the right person. Guys and girls can sense when the other sex is anxious or nervous, and that can seem as a turnoff. You can't always be the nice one, and you can't always do the right thing. My best advice is to stop giving your girls that are friends attention. Let them come to you, and don't always be willing to shower them with attention. If you play hard to get, they will desire you more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2007): This seems like a hard question but you don't have to worry about not having a girlfriend yet. I suggest if you really want a girlfriend focus on the girl you love and try to talk to her as often as you can with every opportunity you can. If you don't yet love a girl try to get closer with your girl mates, hang round with them a lot more n sooner or later they will fall for you and you will fall for one of them. Keep being nice to girls and treat them rightly because that's what every boi shud b like.I hope this advice helps
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