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writes: I really badley need help ive loved a 19 year old since january im only 16 the problem is ive just got this new bf who is sooooo amazing and i love him. i thought the 19 year old didnt like me as more than a mate but i got a text message off him 2 days ago saying he liked me alot and the only reason he wouldnt get with me was because he thought i was with other boys. the problem is when i met my bf i had just started getting over him and then i got the text and i havnt stopped crying since what shall i do i still love the 19 year old and i love my boyfriend.
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
 I agree with helpful girl, you need to take some time out to work through your thoughts and feelings to see who it is that makes the biggest effect on you as at the moment you could be swaying towards the one you haven't got simply because you haven't got them.
There is going to be times when whatever choice you make you will wonder if you made the right one it's natural to wonder and wonder on what you maybe missing out on but on following your heart you made the right choice.
Good luck :o)
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 no matter what any body says you can not love 2 people the same amount not in a ralationship any way! you have to love the 1 more than the other thats how you make your decision! so there for i would advice you to avoid the 2 for a week or a few days and then you will find out which one you miss more and when that decision is made then so is the decision on who you love more and who you want to be with! it may be hard to avoid them both but just tell them both you need time to consontrate on geeting a job or consontrate on your school work or you job that way when you realise who you do love more youll have him waiting for you!
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