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writes:I'm 14yrs old and have A.D.D, i hate having problems, it causes heaps of other problems such as my boyfriends they have left me cause i have add but i have now found one guy we share the same thing. I can get any guy i want but i just have this problem. all my ex's want me back but i dont take them back. I get pissed off over the littliest things, like i told mum i wanted to go on the computer and she said 30mins so i waited but 1hour came by and i had enough so i had a big go at her i was throwing stuff around and i held a knife to her!! Please i need your help i cant go on like this. I DONT want to talk to anyone about anything they just sit there making up bullshit!! My sister gets it all the time i push her up againist walls and yell and everything, afterwards i always cry because i know i have done the wrong thing. My boyfriend is there for me, because he noes what i go through.I get annoyed because i can get anyone i want, but the thing that drives them away is my problems but then they get over that and want me back!!HELP!!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (18 March 2008):
 Let me ask you first, are you on medication? If not may need it. If so the medication may be causing the additional agression. The issue with having this disorder is your brain is wired different. Some would look at additional computer time as not a big deal, but the way the hyperactive area of A.D.D works your instantly seeing it as a direct attack twards you. You need to understand that these behaviors are inapropriate. Im telling you this, from having the same disorder you have. Once you can controll the anger this disorder has many benifits I wouldn't want to live without. Your ability to solve minor issues is faster than those who don't have it. I hope this helps, take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): Hi Sweetpea :}
You calm down hunny, my son had this so I no how terrible it makes you feel and so does a friend of mine....If you have a certain thing on you mind, Then it has to be done there and then, Your mind works overtime and everything is speeded up in your brain and you cant control it and therefor it makes it worse hunny...I understand ok, Now you may think me daft but when my son used to get really bad spells once he had calmed down and was very tired from the cying I would pop some really relaxing music on and just get him to think of a happy place a place that in his dreams he would love to go and teach him to focus his mind of this beautiful place and it used to calm him down alot....Now as a mum and I do understand my son used to want things, things I couldnt afford well even if I could he wouldnt have got them...He would throw things stamp his feet yell screem and this could go on for a few hours its horrible to see.. but I said everytime, That you cant have everything you want in life...Life isnt like that and if I were to give in to you because of this a.d.h.d then It would just go on for ever and hunny he wouldnt have learnt any value on life..As a mother to see your child going through this and not being able to control it as my son was a kind sweet loving boy..Its just heartbreaking and its also heartbreaking watching people come and go because of this illness as they cant cope or understand...DO YOU THINK YOU COULD TRY THAT MEDITATION SOME TIMES :} It will calm you sweetheart, cuddles are always good hunny when you feel ok and to go and cuddle your sister or your mum when you feel ok will help you as I no it makes you feel horrible inside...My son always came and gave me a hug as I told him hugs are free ya no!!!!!!!I found you a link its for you to read and hopefully you will get some support from it.....
http://www.yadhdpm.co.uk/
I think from what I read sweetheart that the person that did this site has the same problem as they were looking for help and couldnt find any....Now just read a little at a time dont read to much and get stressed hunny ok.....And if you need a chat at anytime you message me TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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