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I have resentment for the people who disciplined me in my past. Are these feeings right or am I just stubbborn?

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Question - (12 February 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am afriad of authorities in that i feel that they would slap me or attack me physically to discipline me when i am doing certain things that are not ethical. Like i rememeber my father slapping me in public when i was careless not to lock my bike and it got stolen when i was young. Similarly my grandfather slapped me for being too much stubborn on getting something i wanted, as that is the way i have always been. I understand they were fair enough ways to discipline me in past, but as an adult i am carrying quite some hatred for those elderly people or authorities who would stop me from doing something i really believe is a proper thing to do. Am i being stubborn or it's just the people want to dominate me and control me as they find me easy to tame?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 February 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntFind you easy to tame? I think you need to schedule an appointment with a qualified therapist immediately. You have some major issues and I'm afraid they may get you into some trouble. Pick up the phone today and make an appointment.

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