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writes:When i first came out i was with this gorgeous guy so gorgeous i did stupid things !!I felt like i was in competition with him all the time !We were mad about each other from the start but then he started acting all not interested so it ended but we would see each other out and we would give each other the eye !! then xmas came we sleppt together and decided on shag buddies i was totally fine with this i got into a relationship with this lovely fella heart of gold great to me he has everything you could ask for in man but he will never be my ex wat will i do i do love my current boyfriend but when ever i see my ex i want him but my ex im not sure how he would feel on the situation please help wat should i do ? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): Your gonna have to choose which guy you want here.If you dont your gonna lose both of them.Think about whats more important, love or sex?I think this guy really likes you so dont go and blow it on your ex who doesnt even seem interested.Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): You have to come to a decision as if you dont you will end up losing both guys and be left on your own...
Its never an easy decision to make but you need to sit down and think which is the best guy for you. I mean if the ex was happy with just been shag buddies with you - whats to say he wasn't shag buddies with some one else too since there was no hard & fast rule to say he was just shagging you and you only???
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 You have to choose either one of them if your ex knows about it. Or the three of you can come to an arrangement.
If he does not know , keep it that way. When he knows , then you will have to deal with it. What will your ex think? I don't know how he would think. You can only deal with what is known.Wait till he tells you his opinions.
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