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writes:Hi! My husband's moods have gotten alot worse. He's very irritable. Always angry and causing arguments with me, over the smallest issues. I believe he has low testosterone and he refuses to go to a doctor to check what is going on. It's hard for me to live this way, knowing that he'll find something to argue about. It's become very stressful for me. Any advice is appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (18 December 2023):
 I really appreciate how difficult this must be for you, and it must be very stressful living under these conditions.
I feel in these situations communication is the key here, i think you need to sit down and have a chat and find out what is going on with him, you need to stress how upset you are about what's going on and if you want this marriage to work then things needs to change.
Also suggest some marriage counselling which might be of some value to you both.
All you can do is try, you can't do anymore that what I have suggested here. If however he is not wiling to do any of these things and things are still bad at home you may have to consider if this marriage has run its course.
I don't know how long you have been married, but at the end of the day your wellbeing, health & happiness are what's important.
At least you can hold your head up high knowing that you at least tried to salvage this marriage, you can't do any more than this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2023): Not sure how you work out this may be low testosterone. It is more likely to be high not low. And I am sure you have no real medical training. Perhaps you made the mistake of telling him that you believe he has low testosterone and he got annoyed, don't blame him. People who need advice from strangers are rarely in a position of knowing much in the first place.
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