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writes: I've been married for four months and in the last two months my husband has become obsessed with sitting on the internet looking at porn. Today I actualy found the history of websites he has looked at and the majority of the sites are of transexuals, pictures and videos. Our sex life has changed, I almost feel he prefers porn to having sex with me. Its also distroying my confidence for exactly that reason. I dont know if its normal or if ive resorted my husband to porn.It concerns me as well that he enjoys transexual sex... Could there been hidden questions behind this? I'd basically like advice on how I should learn to cope with this as it is hurting me. I have tried discussing porn with my husband but he lies and says he doesnt watch it, but I've found the evidence he does. If you could get in touch as soon as possible, thank you X
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Dee, writes (19 February 2005): Hey girl...have a girlfreind that had the same exact life..she was married 5 years and felt she was the cause of their lack of sex and so one day she came across a whole lot of websites all containing male porn..she confronted her husband and he lied to her also..she divorced him more for the fact that for 5 years he made her feel she was at fault for his interest in sex and all the personel pain she lived with ..she said she could have even accepted his porn thing had he have been honest with her..to the last day she was with him he denied it but made no attempt to keep the marriage..my advice to you is go with your heart and tell him you love him and accept anything he will share on the matter..if he continues to lie..you already know sex is not good between you..need you know more..good luck
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