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I am married man but have an indian lady fetish... And just love wearing their sarees!

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Question - (24 January 2005) 63 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2011)
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Hi.

I have been married to an English girl for nearly 10 years now, and even though it has been a happy 10 years, I have always been attracted to women from India, especially women who wear the saree as their main clothing.

I have joined various Indian matrimonial sites and am in contact with a number of Indian women in India, even though I am still married to my wife and living at home. I visited India in 1990 and liked it very much, and thought the women over there were extremely beautiful.

The problem is that I have found a woman in Calcutta who I like very much, we have not spoken yet but exchanged emails and text messages, she has my photo and I have hers and we both have said we would like to meet. The thing is that I do not want to hurt my wife as I nearly left her about 2 years ago because of my love for Indian women and my wife found out that I had put an advert in for an Indian wife, but I cannot get it out of my head and I dearly would like to marry an Indian woman. I do not know why I like them so much, I just do, I have tried to forget it, but when out shopping with my wife, I see Indian women in sarees and it makes me want to be married to one.

One other thing is even more bizarre, I have for many years, even before I met my wife, enjoyed wearing a saree, and even though I know there are many transvestites out there, I do not know of any who are white but only enjoy wearing womens Indian clothing, I have a bag of about 15 sarees along with matching blouses and petticoats which I wear on occasions when I am at home off shift. I am wearing a blue saree now while writing this letter to you. If I am ever in an area where there are saree shops, I often go in and buy one for myself, but tell the shop assistant they are for my Indian wife. I told a Indian woman I met on the matrimonial website that I enjoy wearing sarees and she seemed okay about it, in fact said that if I met her in India, she would show me how to put it on in the various different styles you can wear a saree.

What should I do please.

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A male reader, pretyboy756 India +, writes (23 May 2011):

Hi,

i love to wear women clothes, especialy saree. I had an xperience of tht.

I was wearing saree from last three years

when on my first night with my wife i ask her about why the girls love all the things like make up jwelry perfumes saree?

Then she rplied when you be a girl u wl undrstnd...

I thought 4 whle and thn ask her wl u hlp me ? She said ofcurs.

Then we wnt to our hnymun trp 4 a weak.

There on nite she dressed me like gorgeous wmen ...

I was wore a wht bra and panties and a gren blouse peticoat and a gren silky sare.. She also gve me hr bngls earings payl and a bindi..i was felling good then she aply sme make up like lipstck eyeshdw nailpolsh.and gve me hr high hls..it was the gretest nitd 4 me aftr tht i like to b a girl..

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A male reader, vikramlovesari India +, writes (25 April 2011):

Hi,

everybody this is vikram, I was searching a group where I could share my experiences, and I found it, I also loved to wear female clothes before my marriage. I have a large of collections of sari with matching blouse and petticoats and lot of bra and panties. actually I like to parade in female clothing to others, especially males.

I use hair wigs also and many times I have gone out in salwar kameez or in sari. I like when people stare me or comment on me. I use hair remover cream regularly.

After my marriage I shared this with my wife. At first she hesitated but after she was convinced. Now we both enjoy the life we go to theater, parks etc like two female friends, she wear jeans and a top but I always skirt top or sari with blouse and other accessories, I use jewellery also like ear rings necklace etc and this draws more wondering people stares, more on me, instead of my wife.

really I enjoyed. It works for me. Hope that helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011):

why not male wearring sarees,bangels,eaarings & nathani?

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A male reader, Selvi India +, writes (3 November 2010):

Selvi agony auntGood if it is like by your wife then only you become happy

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A male reader, Englishman42 United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2010):

I am the same, I too like and adore Indian women and have needs to dress in Indian womens clothes, Salwar Kameez and so on. However I have no-one to share this with and I have for a long time yearned for friendship of either Indian men or women who might understand how I feel and how I want to express myself. This is a difficult subject and so you can imagine my delight when I found this page and all these replies to what I have always considered to be a problem for me. I am attracted to Indian women to the point where I feel that I need to dress like them and somehow be like them. I know I can't but I still enjoy that thought.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010):

I think cross dressing is symbol of that man is complete a gents (a women sitting under that gents) or may be that man a hermaphrodite or may be any type of "Manoroge"

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010):

USE OF SAREE : When a man going to do the sex with his wife he should dressed up with saree. He will feel more excitement in sex. He should wear “ Payal, Bichhiya, Petticot, Bra(Artificial breast ), Blouse(Gujrati type (Cone type breast),Saree, Mangalsutra, Bindi, Earring(if possible) than man should feel like women. Than start sexual activities. Before wearing bra your should make hard touch to your chest point and leave it for few second than start soft touching it with finger and feel enjoyment and thereafter put on the “Bra” hook, use chiffon or synthetic saree. See the result your penis (Land) is stand like stick. Your wife should also in same saree than start sexual play. And enjoy more with your wife.

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A male reader, karagadaraj India +, writes (23 July 2010):

i am 30 year male. daily night i wear bra, blouse, petticote and saree. this is my hobby.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010):

Even i enjoyed wearing sarees for several years; feeling sensual saree feelings over my body.

When I married recently, I had a predicament.

I showed this column to my wife. She understood what I wanted. She understood that there are so many people who enjoy wearing sarees.

She is very co-operative. Every night she takes a lead in dressing me in saree and takes care of me. We are enjoying sex very passionately.

I feel you can also try this and wish that you have a good life with your current wife.

Hope you can narrate your experiences.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010):

I do like crossdressing in saree and love other guys and gals in saree. There is nothing wrong in guys wearing gals clothes and apllying makeup and hopefully society will accept it someday.

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A female reader, sanya19 Australia +, writes (21 April 2010):

i am crossdresser as well n my wife help me a lot n even my mother in laws know about me n she is also happy what i am because after all her daughter is happy with me.

i use to wear skirt,tights,shorts n some time long dress.my wife help me in wax,makeup n buy a different type of dresses.she is really helpful are every stage and thanks to her.

i dont understand why man not wear girl's clothes but girls wear guys clothes easily.i feel relax in girls clothes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010):

i like to masturbate in chiffon and silk sarees. not only sarees type of dresses with that material. it's giving so satisfact than hand masturbation. in mumbai i always using polysterne sarees (nice sarees) of my distant relative sister where i was stayed with them. now i am married still i using my wife's sarees and dupatta's for masturbating. it's a heavenly feeling..try it

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A male reader, suvarna India +, writes (23 October 2009):

I am male to female crossdresser since 20 years. I am very interesting in to wearing sarees some times beacuse i have no place to wear it in my house not convince my wife and children are not accept who are hesitate.my desire is wearing it regularly but there is no chance. I have one aunty she was 50 years old but she was look very young she lives lonely in some where we are friends since 5 years I have to more times and relaxing with her house.One day i went to her home that day I wear bra under my shirt to reach that house i remove the shirt in front her she was suddenly shocked but i explained to days my desire she was too long to accepted my desire on that day i was enjoying cding before her she was helf me to wear saree and all those things.She living in a hut house in a villege bathing also do out side of the house.

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A male reader, saree lover India +, writes (21 September 2009):

i like very much to wear saree & salwar kameez. there is nothing wrong in that to wear oppisite sex's clothes.

in that also i like to wear gujarati saree.

my wife also ok with it. she helps me in wearing saree.

i wear bra, penty, blouse, petticoat, & finally saree.

i do the whole make up. i wear all the ornaments of my wife. like bangles, chudi, earings, nose ring, mangalsutra,payal, rings, necklace.

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A female reader, payal76 India +, writes (29 August 2009):

payal76 agony aunti am a male crossdresser since last 5 years.

i am a male and my fevourite dress is saree i wear saree of my wife and she supports me how to dress up and i enjoy to wearing saree and my wife wears my clothes .

i love very much to wear sarees and salwars i wear sarees when im alone truely i would like to wear a saree and bangels,ear rings&a vig of long hair i like to look like a perfect lady but im not a gay or homosexual but this is my strong desire that im look like a perfect lady .

i also like to wear salwar kameez too.

see a link

http://www.flickr.com/photos/menssaree/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/menssaree/page2/

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009):

I also love wearing sarees but I am not married

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A male reader, shruthi India +, writes (22 July 2009):

i m a 26 year old male and i always enjoyed wearing female dresses. i used to wear my sisters chudidar and my mothers saree and bra. i want to look like a complete female.there is no wrong in wearing female dress

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A female reader, payal76 India +, writes (14 June 2009):

payal76 agony aunti am a male crossdresser and my favourite dress is saree. i try my wife saree when i am alone in home.she does'nt supports me how can dress up and i enjoy to wearing saree .i also like to wear salwar kameez .many times i wear slawar kameez take some photos. i want , publish them om net.please help me wearing on sarre.my e-mail is [email address blocked]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

I am a male.i am 22 years old.i like to wear saree and my girl friend jonithra helps me to wear saree.my fevourite dress is saree i wear saree of my girl friend and she supports me how to dress up and i enjoy to wearing saree.

I have 3 saris 5 salwar and 3 bras and counting, I regularly wear bra ,saree@blouse.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009):

Nothing wrong in wearing whatever you like !!

Encourage your wife also to accept you the way you are.

Even I like wearing specially smooth and slippery chiffon sarees but directly on my naked body and sleep with my wife. Saree is so sensual and entertains my whole body. Even my wife emulates me and we enjoy with each other.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

Hi..

I have an experience in wearing a saree from past five years right now i am 22 years old... I love to wear women garments like saree, salwar etc.... One of my best experience was:

"One day i went to my aunty home as they were planning to go out of station forever. They had planned to take the photographs in a different way, i didnt think it would be like this. My aunt tied me a saree and took photos and even i wore salwar. My aunt told i was looking beautiful. I felt very happy and i loved the dresses of girls. Those dresses are attractive, so I liked to wear that dresses, but no one is there to help me in tying saree". But i love to wear it. The clothes does not make any difference that male or female. So the wife or Girl friend should give the rights to them to wear wat they want to. Give rights to them to wear as they wish.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009):

My wife also does not bother. By the way we discuss ( not argue). But at home only I do it. Had Petti coat, bra(love it),sari and blouse. Do not do it if your spouse do not like it. It is like you want to earn 10crores and will you do it. Same way certain desires we better not pursue if it bothers others and particularly your spouse. Hope I mande the point clear.

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A male reader, daminimtf India +, writes (9 January 2009):

yes i like to wear saree and my wife helps me to wear saree and she always put all ornament like bangles payal nose ring tika. and i like to be like dulhan.i i strongly recomand all male to be wife of wife and wear saree.and u will anjoy heaven.damini

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A male reader, daminimtf India +, writes (9 January 2009):

yes i like to wear saree and my wife helps me to wear saree and she always put all ornament like bangles payal nose ring tika. and i like to be like dulhan.i i strongly recomand all male to be wife of wife and wear saree.and u will anjoy heaven.damini

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

When is DearCupid's birthday?Does anyone who doesn't wear a saree know?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

Eyes!I was just about to write,"What crap!I have never seen an Indian Man wear a saree and walk on the road".

Now I know how old DearCupid really is...I always wondered.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWow look at the life span on this post! I'm saree, but I think it might be a record!

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A male reader, Deepak kumari India +, writes (8 December 2008):

Deepak kumari agony auntHi

i love saris and women nature very much. I wear sari at home or at tour. My wife also crossdressed, she like to wear jeans. She is also taller than me .

I think there is nothing wrong to wear womens cloths. My wife helps me to dress up .

You are doing nothing wrong.

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A female reader, priya5502 India +, writes (2 November 2008):

i also like to wear sarees

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008):

My husband First Night with a Saree ? husband wear a saree like a bride and sleep with me.

I dont know why cant male wear saree and other female clothes when women can wear male clothes.I think man`s should wear sarees and other clothes only in home not out side. When womes can have many options for fashion why cant man..?my husband also wear my sari`s oftenly at home and i doesnt mind...?

priya from faridabad

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008):

dont worry indian women are beautiful and very much interested in marrying foreigners.. who knows maybe you can get lucky

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

hi, my name is vkg. i am from india punjab. i have the same problem as discribed above. my wife also help me in my make up and putting me saree. i have two childs. 6y girl and 3y boy. i am enjoying my life very mutch.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

hi

i love waering sarees& other indian female dresses.When was 12 year old i first try to wear saree. though i couldnt

wear it properly, but i feel a great pleasuer with wearing it.When i become alone in home, i used to dressed me like female waering my mom's or my sister's sarees(now become expert on wearing saree). Not only that i (now 21 years old student)waer bra, panty, petticote,blouse & garments as i looked as a female.I am not homosextual or a gay, but a feel pleasure dressed up like female. First i was afraid that it is a problem to me, but now i come to know there are many people like me in the world.i also agree with u that one must waer the dress in which he or she feels comfortable,there no question of male or female.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

I am a man who like a wear Bra, Blouse, Petti coat and saree, Pavadai and chattai, pavadai and Davani, Skirt,Churidhar and gagra Choli and dresses. I am not feel it is wrong but wear the dresses like by ladies which I feel comfortable. I am daily wearing my wifes dresses at night times and holiday times. My wife also know about this one and she also help me to wear the dresses. You also try to wear the saree and other dresses you feel it that is wonderful.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008):

hi since my childhood days i have this habit of crossdressing , otherwise i am strait guy without any feminine characteristic or behaviour. earlier i was crossdressing in my sister's frocks, as i grew older i started wearing thier chudidar, salwarkurta, skirts and top and other indian dresses, i had thinking that i am alone like this but afterwards i came to know that their other like me with same behaviour, but am always attracted towards females when i was a little child my parent buying me girls clothes. i came to know that latter from them. my sister,s were also some time wearing me their dresses. at present i wear bra and saree of female member at home, no one in my family or outside know about my this habit, i like each and every behaviour or style whatever u call it of females like again and again using their finger to take their hair backside of ear. i cant say you how i yearning to have a long hair like them and have my ear's and nose pierced as indian girls do, since last few months i sleep with wearing bra under my clothes, some times i also go out wearing bra under my shirts. saree is my favourate dress whenever i am alone or get chance i wear a saree though it takes a long time to tie a saree. earlier i didn,t know how to wear saree, but now i cant wear it properly.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008):

hi i am m to f man. as long as i remember i am crossdressing. earlier it was frock and dresses but now i wear sarees.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

hi im also a crossdresser from vijayawada i love very much to wear sarees and salwars i wear sarees when im alone truely i would like to wear a saree and bangels,ear rings&a vig of long hair i like to look like a perfect lady but im not a gay or homosexual but this is my strong desire that im look like a perfect lady

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

My husband regularly wears saree and other Indian female attires.He feels very comfortable in them.We do share saree, salwar kameez,blouse,petticoat(saya),nighties,ghagra and cholis, bras ,panties etc.In fact I always buy free size women dress, so that I can share that with my husband.We have a six year old daughter, and she is absolutely familiar with her father's dress. She in fact helps her father while he wears saree.Only when he goes to office he wears male dresses, but with my or her mom's underwear on.At house he never wear male garments.My pops-in-law and mom-in-law both are conversant with their son's dress habit.My mom-in-law also shops free size garments for me and her son.

I do not allow him to wear women's clothing when he goes out locally, but when we go for a tour, I, my daughter, and my mom-in-law generally cross dress with jeans and T-shirt, but he always wear saree or other female dresses.He loves to be called by Latha while we go for holidays.

But these fetishes didnt diminish his personality, and he is not a homosexual.He loves me and his habit doesn't come in our way of married life.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

I am also 31 yrs married. I like wearing indian female weares sarres & salwar kameez. I am doing this since last 10 yrs. I always face diffficult to purchase this things. I wear this when alone in proper ways. again stiching blouse is big chalange. if some lady can help i will be happy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007):

hi it good to wear a saree, i also wear saree on saturday ,my wife love the way i look in it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):

Your's is a nice disire.I too wear saree.As iam an bangalorean getting a saree is not difficult.I like to be called with a lady name.So ikeep my name as priya.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007):

go!

Its cool , you will be happy forever- ur wife will find someone else.

This is too good an opportunity to miss

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A male reader, Louise101 United Kingdom +, writes (5 July 2007):

Hi, I am also a married cross dresser that loves wear Indian girls clothes I have 3 saris 5 salwar kameez suits and 3 kameez/kurta tops and counting, I regularly wear the salwar kameez suits to the 'trannie' meetings, and in fact wore one when we all went out to a Indian restaurant with no bad vibes. I do wear the saris whenever possible usually at party’s, there has never been a negative response, in fact I am known in my circles for wearing them, it is nice to dress outside of the box.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007):

My answers to the question: "I also want to buy such slippery and soft sarees for my wife, where can I get them and by what name/category, online ??"

Let me narrate my experience in shopping for sarees.

I cannot understand but true. Even today I have not seen any Indian manufacturer manufacturing sarees which are thin, slippery and soft as that of the imported variety.

You get beautiful Surat synthetic sarees but they are again not as thin and as slippery.

Earlier (ten years ago), we used to get beautiful imported chiffon sarees in Imported Bazaars. Now a days they sell the Indian variety there. Probably it may not be working out for them.

Usually whichever city I travel, usually I try to venture out and search out for Saree shops. I am disappointed in many cities and shops.

When I visited KL (Kaulalumpur), Malaysia I enquired and found one store - Haniffa Textiles in MasjidIndia area.

This is a shopping mall where many many beautiful

Japanese Chiffon sarees are sold in reams. These are superb, very smooth, very sensual specially on naked body, transparent, thin, and enjoyable.

HAving sex over such sarees is an unmatchable experience. Makes every encounter very very refreshing and energetic.

Each saree of 5.5 mt is around 40 to 70 RM (1 RM is nearly INR 12.50) I have visited this shop quite a few times in past few years. At any time I have seen around 150 to 200 prints and varieties (colours, designs, prints) of these

chiffon sarees.

Ofcourse it is worth. You can enjoy wearing your wife naked in such a saree and enjoy sex in many spots.

Since saree is cut out of reams here, if required you can get a long piece of 11 mt which you can reserve for Bedroom to play with. Specially if you have an understanding partner, both of you can wear the same saree naked you can enjoy saree sex to the hilt.

In case your wife is away, you can wear and enjoy such sarees in bed room.

I have no idea if it is available online.

It would be great if someone can point to some store if it is available in India.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

I also want to buy such slippery and soft sarees for my wife, where can I get them and by what name/category, online ??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007):

I love wearing synthetic sarees. My body has no hair and so i spread the saree on the bed and lye on my stomach. I love the feeling of the saree on my whole body. That is my fav masturabtion position. In addition I cross dress as often I can. I also always wrap the saree around the cock and cum on it. Sometimes i pile up a lot of sarees on the bed and masturabte on it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006):

I am surprised how many have answered on the issue that you like wearing sarees yourself and few said anything about your attraction to the Indian ladies despite being married. I'd love to know if you have made a decision (after a year).

I am all with you on the Indian ladies. I think I understand exactly what you feel. Still, I think you need to be careful not to drive yourself into insanity. You need to stand up to be a man, human, and make a decision. The cross-dressing thing is like a way in which you seek to take of pressure from your desires but in a way that ultimately doesn't satisfy you, that ultimately is not healthy for you.

You need to think about your marriage. Remember what it was that made you get into the marriage. Do you have any kids? If so, you have to think about your kids too. You made a decision in your life and (I suppose) a promise to be there for your wife, and your dilemma is that if you are not able to keep that promise, you are not good for the Indian lady either. I think you need to make a decision to stay true to your word or throw away your life and start over. The latter basically means you invalidate your life so far, and you can't trust your own decisions. I think if you admire India, then this is the least Indian decision you can make.

Have you ever considered that you could re-discover your own wife as the object of your desires, just as it (probably) has been when you married? Can you not place your wife back into the picture of your dreams? So, you like Indian dress (and I agree), can you imagine your wife all beautiful in the saree? Rather than you wearing that cloth in secret (and without finding the fulfillment that you seek) why not ask her to wear sarees or salwar suits with nice duppatas? Why not buy Indian jewlery for her? If you can't imagine that this would work, watch Kisna the movie and you see that these clothes can make a dream-princess out of any lady, Indian or European.

I strongly advise you re-discover your love to your wife and stick to your committments. You can keep your admiration for the Indian ladies, but you should not act insanely, but change the life that you started living 10 years ago, and change that life to become exciting again. And don't go for that cross-dressing path which leads nowhere near your desires, work with what you have and stay true to your promises.

(Believe me, I understand exactly where you're at, as I am too, but there are some little choices which make a big difference on which I disagree with you.)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006):

hi man wearing sarees is not bad my husband also wears sareees ,salwar kameez,nighties ,bra panty and all other cothes(ladies) and we have fun in nights wen he go to work he only wears bra and panty under his male clothes and looks very sexywen he wears lehnga choli

so man ty more and more ladies clothes to fancy your body

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006):

hello

i want to say that i also have fetish for silk sarees, esp soft smooth synthetic ones. i use them to masturbate by rubbing my dick on them. also a great way to masturbate is by wrapping a quilt up and rolling the saree over it..it looks like a body of a indian woman wearing a saree..then u can rub your penis on it..pretending that it is the backside of the woman..it is the best way to masturbate..esp if the saree is silky

also to improve the exp.put some feminine perfume on the saree..it will really feel like u r humping a hot sexy indian woman's ass while she is wearing a sexy saree

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006):

Go ahead and talk to your wife openly.

Every night, I wear beautiful chiffon sarees on my naked body which are so sensual and sleep with my wife.

It is about your confidence and understanding on part of your wife.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006):

If Wearing Saree makes you happy GO FOR IT and ENJOY

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006):

congratulations! me too would love you to dressed in saree.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006):

I do wear sari whenever an occassion comes. My wife does not object so long as it is inside the house. she is quite co-operative and understanding. One day I wore complete silk sari, silk blouse, silk bra, silk lehenga, lipstic, bindi, kazal. Experience was superb... i do not drink and smoke but this I take as a relaxing hobby after a hard working day.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2006):

hi man wearing a saree is not a thing to matter because clothes donot distinguish man and women and one should wear that clothe in which one is comfortable i also wear saree,salwar kameez,lehnga choli skirts ,nighties,lingerie and all other feminine clothes in which i m comfortable when i wear male clothes my under garments are feminine at home i never wear male clothes one of my boyfriend know this and support me i have sexual relation with him and when we sleep together i wear feminine clothes and some times we both to make our night adventourous so dont think that you are doing any thing wrong you are right and dont forgive this alternative dressing

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A male reader, Saree Love +, writes (22 June 2006):

Can I go ahead and provide you my experiences which might be a good additional input to you?

My experience goes like this …

Fetish for Saree as a Kid

From my memories I remember when I was a small kid (may be around 4 years) unknowingly I had developed a likeness for some sarees. I used to like nylex sarees. Later I started liking chiffon and georgette sarees. I found them smooth, thin, soft, slippery and very very sensual.

My First Masturbation on a Saree

My first saree wearing experience happened when I was around 12 years. One afternoon I was alone at my home in my room. Small ant had bitten my cock. I was treating it. I wanted to give some soft treatment. I picked up a blue-violet nylex saree from a suitcase. I carefully unfolded it and touched saree on my cock. My goodness !! How good it was !! I enjoyed those moments. Saree was so soft, so smooth and so slippery. I think it is this combination I enjoyed.

I went further and wrapped part of the saree around my cock. My cock got so much of happiness. A strange experience in my life. I started getting aroused. Soft cum started coming around my cock. I enjoyed the feelings. I went further and started caressing my cock using saree. Did very smooth movements and soft rubbings. Atleast I would have spent 15-20 minutes enjoying it. I underwent a reverberation in my body and came some loads of white fluid (Later I learnt that it was sperm). This was my first experience of Masturbation.

Then I got scared if my mother comes. I carefully folded the saree and kept it in the suitcase in the same position where it was.

But unknowingly my journey in to the “Saree World” (you call Cross Dressing) had begun !!

My First Night with a Saree

Obviously my body was exposed to an unknown urge. Urge was becoming more and more intense. I was just waiting for the night. Fortunately my mom had kept that suitcase in my room. Dinner was over. Every one in the home started sleeping. I was alone doing reading. I locked myself in the room. Opened the suitcase and the same beautiful saree came out.

Now not only my cock, my whole body was urging for it. My waist, my stomach, my chest, my hands, my thighs (at that age I did not have hair on my body), my legs, my face, my head, my fingers, … every one were craving for that soft sensual feeling of the saree. I touched saree every where; but every one is craving for more and more caressing and more and more time. How do I go about it ?? Then I got an idea that I should wear the saree on my naked body !!!

I undressed myself. For the first time I am enjoying my naked body myself. I unfolded the saree completely. Made a mental note of how it has been folded so that I can refold back in the same way. How to wear? I did not want to wear any petticoat because that would come in the way of parts of my body enjoying the saree. I tied one long thick thread around my waist.

I started wearing saree. Nylex saree was smooth and slippery. It was falling off. I liked plateaus jumping over my cock. I used to form them and they were falling off. First night somehow I managed to wear not so ideally that I would like. But somehow, dragging here and there.

I just lied in the saree on the bed now. My goodness it was so nice. My whole body liked the sensations. My hands were playing with the saree. My legs were caressing the saree. My ass was enjoying the saree. My waist was enjoying the slippery saree. My stomach, back and chest were enjoying the curves of the saree that they were touching. I pulled saree one more extra round by reducing plateaus. My whole body was enjoying the saree.

Then I gave attention to my cock. When all the parts of the whole body were enjoying, naturally there was an unknown arousal. As soon as I gave attention to my cock, it became so happy and oozed loads of sperms into saree!! If I recollect ejaculation was automatic without any aggressive rubbing or forward/backward motions!!

But I got scared now. Would there be any marks on the saree? What if my mother catches me?

I put on the light and checked. Thankfully nylex was a nice material. It was wrinkle proof and also stain proof!! It was wet but there were no visible marks.

Thank God ! I sighed a relief.

I rubbed the wet parts of the saree with a cotton cloth. Cotton cloth absorbs wet very well.

Should I unwear the saree now?

No, no, … shouted all parts of my body.

I slept with saree on my naked body. This started becoming my new great night suit!!

I got such a beautiful sleep. Members of my body were all caressing and enjoying the saree whole night and were having a blissful time the whole night.

What a night it was !!

This was my first sexy night with saree !!

After this incident, I have had a fantastic time with sarees. I have conducted whole lot of experiments. I am 38 now. Even today I sleep naked draped in a beautiful chiffon saree along with my wife who also follows me.

My Experiments to tie Saree Properly

My Experiments with two Sarees

My experience with different Sarees: Satisfaction with the different materials. Georgette, Chiffon, Polyester, etc.

How I started finding more life in every saree?

My enjoyment with smooth, thin, light weight imported chiffon sarees

How the colour and material of the saree would spice up my arousal and sex? With white Georgette Sarees, With brown Chiffon Sarees

I stole my sister’s saree and took to my hostel (when I joined Engineering)

How I revealed my experience to my boy friend?

Day I wore saree like a bride and slept with my boy friend

How I made my friend(boy friend) to wear a saree and enjoy with me ?

How I stole boy friend’s wife’s saree and enjoyed with it fantasizing both of them?

My enjoyment with both of them

How I fucked my wife with her saree on?

How I discussed my fetishes with my wife?

Doing a Foursome: Me, my wife, my friend and his wife

Foursome as a well knit Family: How we love each other so deep and for such a long time (We are married for more than 15 years)

How saree has helped me to have a full fledged sex life?

May be I should take time out from my Corporate Responsibilities and do this writing which may remain as some strange reference for this whole world.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006):

I dont think dere is any harm in wearing saree for man. I almost daily wear my wifes saree . We have never differentiated clothes according to gender. I feel man and women must be free to wear each other dress. I am having more then 20 sarees and blouse and daily night when i return from office i dress in sarees only. I and my wife share sarees

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006):

From the age of 12, even I enjoy wearing sarees especially transparent chiffon sarees which are so smooth and soft on my cock and several intimate parts of my naked body arousing sensual passions. Whenever I am alone, I enjoy wearing sarees, sleeping with them, shagging in them, and what not. I can probably right a book about how sensual the saree could be on a male body and what all sexual fantasies I have tried with saree in all combinations, on me, with my boy friend, and with my wife. I am 35 now and still my urge for sarees is going high. I get excited whenever I see beautiful sarees.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2006):

i am a male and my fevourite dress is saree i wear saree of my wife and she supports me how to dress up and i enjoy to wearing saree and my wife wears my clothes we cross dress and goes outside for dinner and walking when i wear saree my wife drives my bike bajaj pulsar 180 and she drives much faster then me. i also like to wear salwar kameez too

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005):

I think obssesion is with Sarees. I know sarees are beautiful pice of garment to ware and to take it off in the bedroom...

I had a English girl friend once and she tried the Indian saree and boy she looked very beautifull. May be you ask your wife to put the saree on I think you will forget weman in India.

All the best,

PK

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2005):

I dont know why cant male wear saree and other female clothes when women can wear male clothes.I think man`s should wear sarees and other clothes. When womes can have many options for fashion why cant man..?I also do wear my wife`s sari`s oftenly at home and ahe doesnt mind...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2005):

i also like to wear sarees

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2005):

There is nothing wrong in your desire. Go ahead and wear saree(s) if it gives you pleasure.

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (25 January 2005):

Bev Conolly agony auntHi there,

It's not really fair to your wife to continue to stay married to her, when in your heart you want something tremendously different from what she can provide and when the preoccupation with Indian women and sarees takes your interest so far away from her.

Have you explained to your wife about your cross-dressing in sarees? Is she OK with it or, althernatively, has she tried to show support for you and failed? Has she indicated that it influences her love for you? Does she know that you're fascinated with India with the idea of marrying an Indian woman? Did you realise that you were attracted to Indian women when you married your English wife?

These are a lot of questions, but you need to think about them in order to decide what to do next. Your letter makes you sound as if you're very certain about your decision to meet and possibly marry a woman from India, and therefore it seems like it should be obvious that you should explain to your wife that you can't stay with her any longer, as your love and interest is elsewhere. Conversely, you also say that your ten-year marriage has been a happy one, though interestingly, you don't say anywhere in your letter that you love, or even care for, your wife.

It looks from your letter as if your obsession with India has taken over all aspects of your life and so you won't be happy until you try this major change. I urge you to talk things over with your wife soon, doing your best to explain your compulsion - before you make plans with the woman in Calcutta - and give your wife time to understand how important this is to you.

Short of becoming Indian, I can't see how your wife can compete with your fantasy, but she at least deserves to know what's going on.

Good luck (and happy trans-garmenting).

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