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*siaaa
writes:I am a 30 year old girl. i married a 37 african french man. he is so nice guy. in our culture, we do a court marriage first for a couple of months before we can have a complete sex and do the wedding party. in the first two months we played so much together.. kissing.. huging and so on. i liked it too much and it was the first time for me cause am still a virgin. all of this changed when i told him that they did a female Circumcision to me when i was a child. he stopped touching me and then asked for a divorce. I tried to convince him but i couldnt. before he discoverd that, he used to tell me that he liked playing with me and he was happy. in our culture its a thing that we dont discuss or talk about cause 90% of the families do it for their daughters. all the females in our family did it and they are living a happy sex life with thier husbands cause as i told you its not like the way they do it in africa. i looked at normal women clit pictures on the net and i cant see any difference in the shape cause the cicumcision in my country is totally different from what they do in africa. am so hot girl and i feel every touch and i really enjoyed it. I am so sad and crying day and night cause my french husband left me for a reason like that. i want to know your opinion (European people) if what my husband did to me is right or wrong. sorry for my bad english and please guys i really need your help.
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reader, Asiaaa +, writes (13 August 2010):
Asiaaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much man. u cheerd me up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): I think yes, when you marry someone the decision is based on love and understanding between both of you.
it should not matter what happened to someone when he/she was a child.
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reader, Asiaaa +, writes (8 August 2010):
Asiaaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much guys. i was very scared that all europians have the same way of thinking. i sarted to hate myself and lost my confident. its too painful to end a marriage for a reason like this. i still want to know the males point of view. would you marry a woman who had a circumcision like me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): I think he doesn't really understand what went on in the procedure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): i agree with emma, it is totally unfair.
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reader, becca emma louise  +, writes (8 August 2010):
i think its totally unfair, when he married you he promised to love you no matter what. this shouldnt change that. its good of you to be honest and tell him the truth, its was a decision made for you but something as small as that should not break up a marriage, he fell in love with you before he knew and if you hadnt told him would still love you. anyone who would get a divorce over something like that isnt worth it, find someone who really will love you no matter what and that wants to pleasure you even after you tell them about the circumcision. it wouldnt bother a true love they will just want to please you. dont let this bother you and get you down, put it in the past and good luck for the future :) xx
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