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writes:i have a husband who is too controling, mean, bitter and heartless. I am not working because we have two kids together and I am the one taking care of them, every day he calls me all kinds of bad names that no responsible lady can take, before and after i had my kids he hits me all the time. he don't give me any help and he said that he will never see me become somebody in life and that makes me angry and depressed. What am i going to do to make myself happy even though I am going through this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): The only way you will ever be happy is to leave. Is there anybody you can stay with? Friends? Family? If not you should should look online for women's shelters. You need to get out before you are seriously injured or worse. By staying you are not only hurting yourself but damaging your children more then you'll ever know, trust me.
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reader, monkey friend +, writes (9 October 2010):
Leave him. Parents are old model for kids; so what one parent does can easily turn into how your kids treat people and their future families.
Ever hear that most abusers are people who had abusive parents?
You need to do what is best for you and especially your kids; you need to divorce him and leave him for good.
Who knows, maybe you will eventually find a guy who loves you and your kids and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Please don't be one of those people who allow yourself to get abused and do nothing about it. Please leave the relationship.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 It's simple, he doesnt appreciate you, he doesnt love you. Your kids will suffer from all the abuse and they will probably start hitting y ou and disrespecting you. Leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Leave him! You dont deserve it and neither do your children! I hate when people ask these kinds of questions because most of the time they are just looking for sympathy, and that will get them nowhere. Im saying this, because you need to leave him! He is just a rotten man and he will never change! Be smart, and do it for your children! And you will never be a responsible woman if you stay with him and expect him to change, when you sure as hell know he never will stop.
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