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Hubby's not attracted to me, and he's not shy about telling me what I lack!

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Question - (19 January 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My husband doesn't find me phyically attractive but says hes attracted to me because of the person I am and that he loves me. Should I not worry about this? I have done evrything I can think of to be attractive to him but he prefers a woman in her 20s, much taller than me and prettier. I know it's me he married so should I even worry about this? It hurts me a lot for some reason.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2006):

willywombat agony auntsack this guy fast before he destroys your self esteem and self belief.

I wish you luck x

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A male reader, dream_lover +, writes (21 January 2006):

dream_lover agony auntYou have a right to be up set with him he is not the man you married.He is not even a real man a real man does not judge a women by the way she looks or how she acts or how she lives.A real man if he is a man never tells a women what she lacks to make her a real women.He lacks feelings, love,understanding,careing,all the things that make him a loving husband.If he can't see you for the women he married you don't need him in your life. You have a good heart and a lot of love to give.You need to get out and find someone that loves you for you.good luck and hope your like is better.e-mail me if you need a friend

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006):

Your husband is insulting you. Get out of this marriage FAST.

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (20 January 2006):

mystify agony auntif someone truley loved you they would love everything about you, but at the same time someone who demoralises you like that does not love you, i would worry what is a relationship if it dosent make you feel good about life and yourself!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2006):

Leave him! You are wasting your time on someone who cares not about you. What do you want ? Did he bother asking ? Find someone who cares about you also and is not wishing for something he will never have..at least not tell it to your face! That was insulting !

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