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How wet is too wet? My arousal is turning into a nightmare for me!

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Question - (25 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I find myself getting really wet several times each day. Most of the time it happens if I’m day-dreaming about having sex or being intimate with a guy. At first I enjoyed feeling aroused and wet all the time but now it’s turned into a nightmare.

The problem is sometimes there is so much wetness that it soaks all the way through my panties and starts to get my trousers wet. I’ve been wearing a thong or a skirt before and the discharge has dribbled down the inside of my legs as I’m walking about. Another time I got up from a chair only to look down and see a wet patch where I had been sitting. This is just horrible when it happens at school, I’m really embarrassed. Most days I end up having to go to the bathroom a lot just to wipe myself.

I’m thinking of bringing extra panties to school to change, but I don’t know what to do with the wet ones. It doesn't smell or anything so I don’t think it’s an infection. I’m too embarrassed to go to the doctors but I’m worried there is something wrong with me. Is there? should I be this wet all the time?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011):

Use pantyliners, they are meant for everyday use. And don't think about sex while you are in school. Do you masturbate?If not, you should definitely start, because it will help you. You won't be aroused all the time if you keep yourself satisfied.

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A male reader, Cupid Boy Canada +, writes (25 January 2011):

Cupid Boy agony auntThongs won't give you much protection at all. Try something like boyshorts. And don't let your mind wander when you're outside somewhere. Direct your attention outward instead of inward. You'll learn a lot more in class that way, too. lol.

You'll get through it. Boys have to deal with unwanted boners all the time, so now you know what it's like! :P

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (25 January 2011):

chigirl agony auntIt could be just temporarily. If you continue to see this is a problem for you for several months then you could contact your doctor and ask if there is anything to be done to decrease your wetness. This however is not harmful, there is nothing wrong with you. But I understand that it is embarrassing and inconvenient.

Try to not think about sex if you can. Have you tried to wear a pad sometimes? Every day is not recommended as it will be unhygienic as bacteria can grow easily, but a pad every now and then on special times when you can not afford to have to worry is ok.

As for bringing an extra pair of panties, that is a good idea. You can bring a bag to put the wet panties in and it wont be a problem.

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