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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello there!Hoping you can help me move things forward a bit with a guy I am interested in. It was about 3 months ago that I went on a date with a lovely man, 4 years older than myself - but we got on absolutely great and there was definitely some chemistry there.The date ended on a positive note, he kissed me and we agreed to meet up again sometime. Only it hasn't happened yet!However, since then he has been in contact with me 2/3 times via text and Facebook - asking if i'd like to meet him again the next week or so. Each time i've said "Yes" then he'll say "I'll give you a text nearer the time to arrange it" - but then he doesn't even text me. I'm very sure he likes me and I really like him.We're both Capricorns and having done some research, it suggests that they don't make the first move unless they are sure the other person is definitely interested, because they fear rejection. It's a very true trait in me, so i'm very laid back and choose not to chase guys. I'm wondering if i'm not making my interest obvious and that's why he's hesitant? I don't know how to move things forward with him! I could send him a friendly email, but I don't want to come across as pushy. Please help! Thank you xx
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Well, first of all, don't think of it as "pushy" unless you're texting him 800 times a day and calling him 10x a day. You can totally call him (I would CALL, not text or Facebook or email) and ask HIM out!
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