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How to know if he loves me?

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Question - (1 August 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, *inley writes:

Hello everyone.

I'm in love with this guy. It's the best feeling I've ever felt. I could look into his eyes for years, and when he touches me it sends chills down my spine. When we kiss it takes my breath away and when I'm near him my heart beats faster. I love him so much. But I'm scared he doesn't feel the same way... It's not his fault I feel that way though. All my life I've struggled with depression and insecurities and I've never been able to really trust anyone because of things that have happened in the past. He's never cheated in his past relationships and they've all been pretty long (the shortest was two years). I've just been screwed over so many times and I don't wanna be hurt again. I think he's in love with me, the way he looks at me is different than how he looks at other people. He's had a really hard past and I know things about him that no one else knows. Even with all these things that make me think he loves me I have a little piece of me that thinks he doesn't. I've always had that, with everyone. Friends, even family. I know he wouldn't lie about loving me, I feel like maybe he thinks he does, but he doesn't. So my question is, how do I know if he really loves me?

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A female reader, Kinley United States +, writes (2 August 2014):

Kinley is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2014):

Hi there. To answer your question, there's just one way to tell if someone really loves you. If he can't stand not to hear, see or be with you even just for a day then your sure he is in love with you. He'll go crazy not to hear or see you almost everyday.

That's why some people get married because they want to see first thing in the morning someone they love. If he don't making any effort on a daily basis forget it. His not into you. Your just a past time. Would you like to be a past time? Sorry but it is exactly what it is.

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