A
female
age
30-35,
*rtsy
writes:A couple weeks ago I started to have a crush on this guy at my school. I tried to ignore it because I am not looking to date him at all. I'm attracted to him and I don't like it. Despite this I tried to see if I could be friends with him. On Valentines day I was giving out chocolate to all my friends and I gave some to him. I only had a minute to talk to him because I had to get to class so it wasn't that big of a deal. I added him on Facebook a few days later and he accepted. Then once I tried to talk to him online and he just ignored me. It really stung. I decided to just abort all attempts at getting to know him as I now deemed him "not worth a second glance." Later I saw he unfriended me which I thought was a little much. It's not like I continued to bother him. It was only once.Last year he used to stare at me all the time, this year when I see him he stares at me, I tried to make friends with him, he hurt my feelings, now he is driving me insane. I'm not exactly mad at him but I'm not thrilled with him either. I'm not conceited but I know I'm pretty and lots of guys look at me. I've concluded that this is why he stares at me but if he didn't want to be my friend then what's with the staring and lingering in places where we cross paths? He keeps popping up and I don't like it, this this didn't used to happen before.Honestly, now I want nothing to do with him but I still find him attractive. When he looks at me it makes me want to either cringe or do something I'd regret. I'm not aggressive at all but sometimes when I see he's looking at me I think about what has happened and I want to either throw him a glare or a punch. I want him to leave me alone but I don't understand why he's doing these things to begin with. Why could he be doing this? What should I do? Please help?
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reader, yikes!  +, writes (6 March 2010):
just ask him what his problem is!
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