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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing this girl for about two weeks, I'm 20 and she's 21. We have done everything but sex however she said she already wants to have sex. I told her i wanted to get to know her better and she agreed. The other night she invited me to the bars and we were both really drunk. We were dancing then all of a sudden she started dancing and talking to like four other guys who are supposedly her friends. I asked why she invited me if she wanted to be with these guys and she said she wanted me to be there but she was just having a good time and that we're not dating etc.. I like this girl and im wondering whether i should ask her if she is seeing other guys. However, i don't want to look insecure or needy.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 If you two are just causually dating then technically she can see other guys, there's nothing wrong with that. The way you can find out if she wants to be with you and stop seeing other guys if she is is to ask her to be your gf.
I don't really see any way of otherwise asking without sounding desperate.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
Tell her you are attracted to her, that you want to date her, and that you want the relationship to be exclusive. That will get the answer out of her quickly and painlessly.
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