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writes:A question for everyone; how often do you think about your girlfriend/boyfriend/significant other?As in, how many times a day and does it vary depending on what stage in the relationship you're in? I tend to find that I really think about the guy I like at that point when you're on the cusp of dating and flirting sparks are flying :)What about you?
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (11 June 2011):
 I think I'm still in the honeymoon period with my partner.. it's been 6 months. When my mind isn't concentrating on other things, I'm thinking of him.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (11 June 2011):
 Depends on the day. If I'm really busy I generally won't think of him too much unless I see something that reminds me of him (something he'd appreciate/like usually). If I'm not doing anything, he'll be on my mind a lot more.
I sometimes get butterflies thinking about him still, even after close to 2.5 years. Especially if we've been apart for awhile.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): 24/7.. theres not enough hours in the day to get my thinking about him in lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): During the initial honeymoon period it was 24/7 including dreams.
6 years in and it is still quite a lot but it's more contextual now. More so when I see something that she'd think is cool, or see something we had discussed, met one of her friends etc.
We live with each other so I suppose that counts. But she's my partner in all things so I experience life with her constantly in mind really. She's my other half.
It's a bit different from the early stages. I don't get butterflies in my stomach thinking about her (unless she's gone away for a couple of weeks or something), but I do get excited when I discover something cool that she'll like, or some news she'll be interested in or I've bought her a gift or we're going to do something exciting.
I actually only really think about her 24/7 these days when I'm worried about her for some reason, like she's sick or has an exam or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and ever since we started hanging out (about a month before we started dating), he's on my mind quite often. We talk every day and when we don't, I still think of him. Of course I think of other things, but he's always in the back of my mind.
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