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Stuckonlove
writes:If you are really in love with a girl and you have been with her for 7 years.... how many times should you be having sex a week if you really are attracted to eachother. I really want to have sex more and it seems like only twice a week maybe three times if I am lucky. I just wanted to know how much sex is too little and how much is too much. I am I too sexual for this girl? I am just so attracted to her and I just dont have sex I really try to be romatic about it all. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Stuckonlove +, writes (14 May 2007):
Stuckonlove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your answers and me and her are the best of friends and I talk to her all the time about life. I am a real considerate lover and she knows this. I think I just want her too much and I should slow the sex down alittle like you said and focus all the time on how to improve it.
Thanks again.
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reader, mitch  +, writes (9 May 2007):
I guess its all about compromise, there is no right amount! its all about how your respective sex drives fit in with eachother.
just talk to her and be honest, explain what you've just said here, but do it gently. for all you know she wants it more too! theres no harm in asking, but if shes makes it clear things are good as they are, i wouldn't push the issue again.
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (9 May 2007):
So, you two have sex maybe 2 or 3 times a week.
Now for the hard question:
How many times a week do you two sit down or lie down together and just talk about your deepest feelings? Your day? Her day? Your goals? Your lives? And just share?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): No fixed rules on that one - it may be that you simply have a higher sex drive than she has.
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reader, aunty jane +, writes (9 May 2007):
 there is no right or wrong answer to this one ...there are no laws to say how many times a week you should have sex.
how does your partner feel about this? mybe you should talk to her,you may have a very high sex drive and hers may be low. comunication is the key word here......your partner may have a high sex drive too but may get rather sore .....especially if you want it all the time
have you heard the saying its quality not quantity? well are you a considerate lover or are you a wham bam thankyou mam?
try and make your partner feel so special and she will want you more
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