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writes:HelloI've read an artice on internet which showed something different what I've knew until now. In this article is mentioned that to turn a woman on needs at least 15 minutes foreplay and sometimes even more( I thout 5 to 10 minutes its enough) even thought this depends on girl.I want to hear from you ladis,how long you need foreplay to get prepered for intercourse,and how long last your sexual act including everything? Well, some ansewers might be "this depends on girl and everyone is different",I still want to see your respnses.Your time is highly appreciated.Thank you.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (2 December 2012):
 It sometimes takes a woman as long as 4 to 5 minutes after she first sees me.... to get a craving to be intimate with me..... tho' one, once, held out for the duration of the dinner that we were enjoying.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012): "how long you need foreplay to get prepared for intercourse,and how long last your sexual act including everything?"
Everyone is different, depends on the mood, depends on the build up even to foreplay.
In my experience 10 minutes is a good average. But I've had women who were very aroused physically from just necking, no other touching at all. I've had others, mainly older, that you had to go a good 30 minutes to an hour and they still just couldn't lube up.
In my current relationship it doesn't take much even when she's not in a great mood or feeling all that horny. But foreplay is not a means to make her ready for intercourse, foreplay is part of the pleasure package and isn't just a build up. There are lots of times where we just finish up after the foreplay and cuddle and not have intercourse. There are other times she's ready and wants to skip foreplay, and other times she'll just get herself ready in about 2-3 minutes and we'll go straight into sex.
Yes foreplay is great for making a woman aroused, but it doesn't just have to a precursor to sex. If done right, you can both be mutually satisfied and not even be bothered to have sex after it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 December 2012):
 The next in a series from this poster....
it depends on many things. there is no set time.
How long does foreplay take.. until she's ready. If you are talented that could be 15-20 minutes... if you are not talented, an hour maybe longer...
it can take anywhere from 30 to 90 minutes per act...
but the truth is since you seem to be seeking information, a clock in the bedroom is only for waking you for work, not to time your sexual acts.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (2 December 2012):
 There is no set "timer" on turning a woman on.
Depending on MANY things a woman can be good to go in 30 seconds other times 30 minutes. Depends on what you do, how well you do it and also the influx of hormones that given day.
If you really intend on timing your foreplay I think you don't get the idea of it and maybe not sex either.
Sex should be partially intuitive - after a while you get to sense what your partner wants/needs/likes. Not 2 minutes of this then 3 minutes of that.. it's not paint by numbers.
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