A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone! My boyfriend of about a year kinda makes me feel like my presence is just convienent for him, if that makes any sense. He won't really ask me to hangout, its kinda said that we do, so I feel like its routine and not special. Also, whenever we get into arguments, we never get anything to be resolved because we need to work on our communication, so how are you supposed to come to a resolution about anything? I also seems like he never wants to spend time with me alone, since he never makes an effort too. And if we ever do anything physcial, I usually mention/iniate it unless nothing takes place. I dont want him to just do things with me because the opportunity is there, I want to know what he actually feels/thinks. I'm his first relationship, and he is kinda shy, but I dont wanna be foooled. Sometimes I dont feel that important to him, even though he tells me he loves me, etc. But I dont want to be his doormat, and I certainy dont want him making me feel less important than I should feel, since Ive already been down that road with a previous boyfriend. What do i do? How do I communicate with him without him getting offended or just doing things differently because he thinks I want him to and things will be fixed that way? Advice would be much appreciated! Thanks!(:
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reader, gingerann +, writes (11 June 2011):
 your gonna have to just come out with it!be calm,but blunt.tell him how you feel.you deserve the best!we all do.when i dont like something -we talk about it.
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