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writes: How do you know if your meant to be together?i met this guy in hs,he was w/ his gf. We started talking n really clicked, n he didn't want be w/his gf but felt like a jerk if he just broke it off w/her. So he was going wait until she finds another guy (sound stupid? to me it does, or am i just stupid?) So we talked until we were in college n i stopped talking to him from time to time because i would get mad at him for showing how much he likes me but cant let his gf go. So the longest time i didn't talk to him was 2-3yrs n i thought that he got married. So I started dating, n now he's telling me that during that time i started dating he broken up w/ her because she was w/another guy, but then he saw me w/this guy n thought i was happy, so he got back w/her n promised to marry her. But now he knows my bf n i aren't happy together n have a lot of problems,he keeps telling me that he does not want to marry her, that he is doing it for their happiness. most likely everyone is going to say i cant do nothing,but just wanted know if it means were not meant to be together even if its obvious? i don't know Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): No offense.. But I wouldn't trust to be in a relationship like that.. He seems to just come up with reasons.. He doesn't want to be alone.. If he finds someone else who he just clicks with after you.. then what.. he wasnt a good boyfriend to her.. how do you know he will be with you..
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reader, DV1  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 If he's not happy with her, and you're not happy with your boyfriend, then you two need to break things off with your respective partners. Marraige is only made for people who are in love with each other... It sounds like he's just trying to make sure that he always is with someone... You two need to talk before they get married.
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reader, NuVu +, writes (18 June 2007):
I don't think you can know if you were meant to be together. People say they are soulmates and then up divorced 2 years later. While at the same time there are couples that have been together 50 years who still wonder if they made the right choice. You never know. Just make the best choice you can and then give them all your love.
I don't think he ever really wanted to leave his girlfriend, otherwise he would have done it a long time ago.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 What's that all about he is doing it for their happiness, how can he expect to be happy if he does not really want to marry her, if you really feel that strongly about each other then maybe you are meant to be together and nothing should come in the way of that.]
You have been in difficult situations he was with someone so you moved on and then when he was not with her and saw that you had moved on he went back to her.
You need to sit down and talk about what you both want if you want to be together just do it, you need to think of yourselves and your own happiness because that is what is important.
Take care.xx.
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