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*ezlie
writes:this is gonna be quite long so here goes..(sorry!)id just like to know do you ever forget your first love?like,is it real?im 17 but ive been on and off with my first love since i was 11...it only really kinda ended there last week..well so i think,ive been through this so many times before,on and off and on and off..you get the picture...i still love him(even though i hate it!) and i just wanna know if that goes away after a while?like in 5 years time will i be saying to myself 'oh i remeber him,puppy love'...bcoz i know most people my age cant tell the difference between infatuation and love..i used to feel that 'love' for him..you know that jealous,needy love..when i was around 15..but lately my feelings have changed..like i love him more than i need him..ive hurt him a lot latley(in fact i made out with his best friend..there was drink and drugs involved i dont really wanna talk bout that now) but to be fair weve hurt eachother a fair bit..but yet we go back to eachothr,everytime feeling different..thing is we havent been a couple in 3 years..and we wer just gonna start things up again when that happened..im sorry for length!but i would really very much so appreciate any advice...thanks xxx
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reader, lezlie +, writes (27 March 2008):
lezlie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok well after reading that its made me think twice about my guy..
he's never ever cheated,but yes we argue..we're headstrong...yet id still run to the end of this earth for him!oh how sad..
yet it saddens me that he might only be one of many,and not of much importance in the future..i just dont know!
oh im starting to babble..i guess im just looking for a yes or no answer as a quick fix..i love him but i cant stand it..i know he feels the same..
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 Your first love will be the one who never argues, never lies, never cheats, always confides in you, and does everything he can to make you happy--just because he cares that much. That's more like a soul mate kinda love, but that's real stuff.
The rest is just 'sand' in the hour glass of time........
Gena ;-)
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