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martin8190
writes:Well, this story goes on for a long time, but to cut it short, me and one of my best mates have a history, but no matter what i do i can't get over her, and i really need to because its badly getting me down. I cant just cut her out of my life because she is one of my best friendswhat do i do?
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reader, SalemsWhispers  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 I wish i could tell you, but unfortunately I am in the same boat as you...the only difference is that nothing has ever happened between the 2 of us....only friendship...he has a girlfriend but she is in a different country for a whole year.....he told me that I am pretty & that if we weren't friends he would flirt...he played a lot of mind games with me...he joked around...he cares about me becoming a better person......up until a few day ago when I told him that I am bipolar he has not spoken a word to me....I feel so hurt & so bad that he has chosen to shine me off without even discussing it with me....So the only thing I could suggest from my experience is to tell her that you need to keep your distance from her for a while...cause you are going through some emotional things & that her being around would make things more complicated...Keep away from her for a while....keep busy so you don't think about her as much & just try to remain strong & positive & try to move forward...that is all I can suggest for now
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (6 October 2007):
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boy ... I know about that one! You have to take a break from her so you can gain perspective. Tell her the truth as you told us, and tell her you're stepping back because the situation is hurting you.
I did it.
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