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writes:This may sound stupid but I really need help on this.My BF and I have dated 2 other times before. He has tried to fench kiss me both times and I have pulled away every time. Now we are dating again and he has tried it again. I told him not yet but the real reason why is cuz i've never done it before. So how do you french kiss? Reply to this Question
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reader, Smileypants +, writes (26 April 2011):
 I agree with the others...basically follow his lead. Kind of copy what he's doing back to him. Don't force your tounge in his mouth like a tounge depressor when he gets his throat checked at the doctors!! Haha. Soft, slightly open lips, soft tounge, kind of swish it over his lips in his mouth, kind of give a soft suck on his bottom lip. You'll do fine :o) and you'll enjoy it, kissing is fun!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 It will come naturally to you believe me. Everybody kisses differently therefore there is no right or wrong way to do it believe me. Just start by opening your mouth a little and follow his lips and if you feel comfortable you can use a bit of tongue and gently put it in to his mouth or even put his bottom lip in to your mouth and gently suck on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): Kiss him with your mouth slightly open and wait for him to slide his tongue in or you slide yours in. Simple. T'here's no particular way french kissing correctly, some slide their tongue in and out (most do) and some swirl their tongues around eachother, like a washing machine. There's many ways. I suggest going with the flow and copying what he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): hii...
honestly, it just kind of comes naturally. since he's not being all that shy about moving in for the kill, so to speak, i'm assuming that he has probably french-kissed before. if he has, use his experience to your advantage. just follow his lead. also, i suggest just being honest with him about why you don't want to do it. i know it can be kind of nerve-wracking to tell someone you've never french-kissed, but in the end, it might make things easier. the first guy that i french-kissed knew what he was doing, and i really didn't. i told him that i didn't have a clue how to do it, and he just kind of laughed and was like, "you'll learn." aaand eventually, i did. hahaa...despite what it seems like, french-kissing is really not all that hard. just follow his lead and go with the flow. ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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reader, Roxsanna  +, writes (25 April 2011):
sounds like the only way you'll know is if you experience it, just tell him that you've never french kissed before and you would like to know and can he be the first one to teach you???? he might be flattered :)
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