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writes:I love my girlfiend dearly, I want to marry her, and live happily. Alas it isnt going to happen. Our relationship is so volitile, If I say the wrong thing, she breaks it off, If I get upset about anything that she says or does, she breaks it off, If I question her about anything, she gets uptight. We are happy when we are together, but when we dont see each other for a day or two, she becomes distant. I know that she loves me, when we are together, it is pure magic, not just sex, but everything is magic. She seems to have real issues about being in a happy relationship, I cant figure her. I have tried to walk away, but my love drags me back for more punishment. I have asked a few questions, I thought it was me causing all of this, but after readin what many have to say, Its not me. All of the problems and breaking up almost weekly have created severe insecurity on my part.How do I end this emotional rollercoaster. How do I walk away when all I want is to be with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ozsong +, writes (11 October 2007):
Ozsong is verified as being by the original poster of the question Once again, great advice, this site is a god send. Thanks to all. Keep it up, karma goes around...
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 It will sound very harsh, but, let me give you the sketch of what I would do.
First, I would try hard to make it work. I know you have tried, but I would keep trying, really trying, for some time. As rcn says, she must have issues.
And then, if things won't work out, no matter how much you love her, leave her. A relationship that doesn't work out should not be sustained.
Wish you the best of lucks.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 take in some counseling with her. she sounds to have some fears going on. and it's not your fault, many things cause fear. your responsible for your behavior and she is hers
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