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How do I walk away from the woman I love and loves me?

Q.   I love my girlfiend dearly, I want to marry her, and live happily. Alas it isnt going to happen. Our relationship is so volitile, If I say the wrong thing, she breaks it off, If I get upset about anything that she says or does, she breaks it off, If ...

A.   11 October 2007: Once again, great advice, this site is a god send. Thanks to all. Keep it up, karma goes around...... (read in full...)

How do women want to be treated, nice doesn't seem to work, or am I too nice.

Q.   OK, Im starting to get the picture, My gf is seeing that im insecure, boyish emotionally and not allowing my normal, assertive nature to show in my relationship... How do I change the way I see myself in relationships. I need to show the strength ...

A.   10 October 2007: Hi Cateyes, I treat her like a princess, I do what ever I can at anytime. My problem is that I feel like I do too much and that she is feeling smothered. I love her dearly, we have been together for 18 months, we live apart. In that time, whenever ... (read in full...)

Should I answer the phone and tell her why I don't want to have anything to do with her?

Q.   I recently ended my relationship with my now ex of 2 years due to the ridiculous amount of problems that we faced. She was extremely demanding and always threatened to end our relationship if she didn't get her way. She would endlessly compla...

A.   10 October 2007: Mate, you have to tell her why, Im on the opposite end of the deal, Im just dealing with my demanding behaviour, its not intentional, but a true problem. She didnt do it purposely, she obviously loves you. Maybe you could try telling her and ... (read in full...)

How do I toughen up in my relationship?

Q.   Im a whimp in my relationship, My wife, now ex wife, left me and my children for another man that she met while at a family funeral in the UK, she never returned. I am now very much in love with Nicole, I smother her through fear of losing her, b...

A.   9 October 2007: Hey thanks, it makes perfect sense, forgive my past, know my present and dont overlove. I understand that we all need space and security. Im not going to race over to see Nicole, Im going to simply send her a text of a smiley face and then wait.... ... (read in full...)

Can a man be "raped" by a woman?

Q.   I would like to know if it is possible for a man to have sex with a woman against his will?...

A.   9 October 2007: It depends on how much a man gets, if he is sexually satisfied, he would find it impossible to get an erection, if he isnt sexually satisfied then he cant control it, so yes it is possible for a man to be raped. It also depends on age, teenagers ... (read in full...)

I accidentally touched her boob and she said nothing. Waht does that mean?

Q.   i really like a girl but she might not be intressted. i told a freind and she told her and she just laughd. we are mates and do i do somtimes flirt with her, but i cant tell if she flirts back she ofte hits me but not in a angy way, does that count. ...

A.   9 October 2007: Give it time, dont push the whole touching thing, you will know when its right.... (read in full...)

How can I stop smothering her?

Q.   I love my girlfriend Nicole with an intensity that ive never experienced. The problem is, I want to do nice things for her all of the time and want to spend every waking moment with her. She tells me that I dont need to do nice things to show her ...

A.   9 October 2007: My wife of 17 years went to a funeral in the UK, met a guy she knew when she was 11, and left my daughters and I for him, she never came back and never gave a reason for leaving her daughters and I, I am scared of loosing Nicole, I love this woman ... (read in full...)

How can I stop smothering her?

Q.   I love my girlfriend Nicole with an intensity that ive never experienced. The problem is, I want to do nice things for her all of the time and want to spend every waking moment with her. She tells me that I dont need to do nice things to show her ...

A.   9 October 2007: All is great when we are together, its when we dont see each other for a few days, then, its like i am compelled to do something to show her that im always thinking of her. Thats when I smother her, then she puts up barriers, and I push harder and ... (read in full...)

How do you tell if you're in love?

Q.   Short and to the point...how can you tell if you are in love?...

A.   9 October 2007: butterflies, stars in the eyes, their smell makes you melt, cant let a cuddle finish......then your in love... (read in full...)

Will I always be this miserable?

Q.   When will my heart heal? I promised myself long before my girlfriend of 2 years split with me that I would never allow myself to become depressed... But I think that is what's happening, and it just doesn't seem right. It's been almost 3 1/2 mo...

A.   9 October 2007: It does get better, but you have to let it heal. When you least expect it, you will meet someone new who makes your heart bounce. Believe me, My wife of 17 years left my daughters and I for another guy in another country, we lost an entire family ... (read in full...)

How can I satisfy him?

Q.   Hi there... ive been with my boyfriend for three months now and everything is fantastic. He actually told me for the first time that he loved me the other day. We got chatting about bedroom antics and he said that even though he doesnt always r...

A.   9 October 2007: it sounds like you are satisfying him, we are all different. I dont always climax with my girl, we do it 6 or 8 times over a weekend and I just dont have the juice to reach climax all of the time. I am pretty vocal, my girlfriend isnt....... (read in full...)

Should I move on to this new girl?

Q.   hey. I'm natalie and i'm lesbain right, i split up from my girlfriend a couple of months ago because she cheated on me. Ever since we've been working on getting back together. We're great together we've been intimate and everything but, she still ...

A.   9 October 2007: Moving on isnt the easiest way but it seems that you need to get closure one way or the other, tell your ex, let her know that if she cant commit, then you will.... to someone else........ (read in full...)

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