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How do I tell this man that is bi-polar that I don't want a relationship with him?

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Question - (3 October 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, *rishangel85 writes:

The guy I am seeing has bi-polar stage 6 and has Schizophrenia. He claims he is in a mexican gang as well, but he is as white as can be. He calls me his wife and is trying to get me pg. how do I tell him that I don't want a relationship with him? AND NO I DID NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THE GANG.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2012):

If he has any history of violence

Run away and go to another city and tell the police you fear for your life

Or actually you can treat him like you're his mum and he will respect you instead of trying to love you

Motherly tone rule 1 :no smiling or laughing at his jokes

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A female reader, Irishangel85 United States +, writes (4 October 2012):

Irishangel85 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

We are not living together.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (3 October 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwell considering that I was taught that schizophrenia cannot co-exist with any other mental illness... I'm going to just comment on the other things...

do you live with him?

why can't you just block him and not see him?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (3 October 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntUnless there are complications and ties that you are not revealing in your submittal.... the way to discontinue matters is to say to him: ".... You know, (his name here), I think that any "relationship" that was going to take place between us is NOT going to take place.... and I think we need to go our separate ways..."

Is that about right????

Good luck....

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (3 October 2012):

Honeypie agony auntDo you live with him? Or does he live with you?

I think the best you can do is get far far away from him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012):

Wow...very tough call. If he is that mentally ill, then you might want to consult his family. If you can't get anywhere with that then the police might be the next step. The point is he is delusional and is not in his right mind. Tread cautiously.

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