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writes:Please help me. Im in love with a guy at work. The problem is we both work for the same company but in different branches. And we meet only once a week when he comes to visit the branch where i work. I dont know much about him. All i want to know is how can i let him know that im in love with him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 How can you be in love with someone that you do not know much about? Stop kidding yourself in to believing you love someone who you don't even know. Ok yes maybe you have a crush on him and want to get to know him more, but if you tell him you are in love with him well then he will run a mile because he doesn't even know you yet. You need to start slowly and try and get to know him. Talk to him, ask him about himself, smile, make conversation, ask him would he like to go for coffee sometime. Just keep things simple and get to know him before you tell him you like him.
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reader, frankman  +, writes (11 November 2011):
I suggest you know him better, get his phone number and it depends on what you would like to do with him. Are you planning on a LTR/ or to settle down..? flinging or what exactly? once you know him better and once you determine your goals, you can just send him a text message to invite him for a cup of coffee or so then ask him there directly if he is interested on you? this way if he is, then he will say yes, and you can go from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2011): Don't tell him you love him because it's way too premature. Usually you date someone for awhile, become exclusive, and then the L word is exchanged.
You could ask him out or let him know you are interested in a date for starters. If things go well and you are together for awhile, the L word will naturally follow.
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reader, Jennibug +, writes (11 November 2011):
 I wouldn't just up and tell him right away that you love him. Esspecially as you said you don't know much about him. What if he's in a relationship already? What if he's in the same situtation you are with another girl? Before springing this "love" you feel you have on him, get to know him. How do you expect him to fall in love with you in return if he doesn't know you? Become his friend and see where it goes from there. You might find that you fall more in love with him as he falls in love with you, or that you weren't really in love with him to begin with.
Good Luck!
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