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How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin? Will he still accept me?

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Question - (29 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2010)
A female Thailand age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How will I tell my boyriend that I am no longer a virgin?will he still accept me as I am?

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A male reader, ton United States +, writes (23 July 2010):

If your problem is how to tell him, then tell him the truth and as soon as possible. Many men out there still prefer to marry a girl who is a virgin. If you don't tell him rightaway, he might assume that you are still and when he finds out you're not, which is most likely to happen, then that will be a problem. It's men's preference if he likes a virgin or not. Like girls too, they have their own preference on a guy....Me, well, I like to settle down with a girl who is a virgin...and I really appreciate if a girl tells me rightaway so that there will be no too much time lost between us, so she can look for a guy that can accept her , and me too to look for a virgin....

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (31 July 2008):

Please clarify the "no longer" part of your question.

Do you mean that you had a sexual relationship before meeting your boyfriend? Or do you mean that you had sex with another man since he became your boyfriend?

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A male reader, Rhandy Philippines +, writes (29 July 2008):

Rhandy agony auntJust tel him in a good manner, if he truly loves you im sure he will accept you, but if didnot accept you, he is not the one deserverd for your love , Love is not a look by his physical aspect but you must accept inspite of what he/she really is.

Good luck

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (29 July 2008):

I have no idea if he will accept you. He could be fine with it or he could go into a frenzy and tell you that you're going to hell. I've never met him and you give no information so we can't tell you.

As for how to tell him... why do you have to? Does he need to know?

Good Luck!! xx

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