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writes:Ok so i sent a post a few days back asking whether people thought the guy i like is stringing me along!(catch up for those who have not seen it - i work with this guy who i really like he has only worked with us for a few weeks but hed been working in our store before helping out and i liked him then too! im not the most confident person so couldnt pluck up the courage to tell him but someone else overheard a conversation and went and told him! we had a really good conversation about where he told me tht he was flattered and that he thought i was a top girl too and the only reason we are not dating is that he has not got the time for a realtionship! but i dnt no if he is just saying tht coz he doesnt want to hurt me his way of letting me down gently maybe?) Ive read the two replies tht i recieved and yeh they make sense but things have changed again! I feel like our realtionship is getting closer and closer and when i see him i really do get butterflies! i really really like him and he keeps saying that he would love me to go for a night out on the town with him but the thing is we both are stuck for cash when i try to offer alternative things to do tht dont involve much money he just always says ive not got the money or i dnt have the time! which i get really gutted about! every one in work is like yeh theyd make a gr8 couple but i just dont know if he sees me tht way even though he has told me he really likes me too but has just not got the time for a relationship! as i I said in the previous post I would wait for ever and a day for him coz i really do like him but i just cant decided what is going through his head! So my question is a hard one i suppose unless there are mind readers out there! How do i find out if he really does like me as he says he does or if he is just saying these things coz he doesnt want to hurt me! Arrrghhh! why is life so complicated????
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reader, MonaAlona  +, writes (27 July 2008):
it sounds like this guy is just stringing you along and buddying you up so he can try to get you to have sex with him without having a relationship. DONT DO IT! he doesnt sound like the right guy. i know hes cute and all but if he wanted to have a relationship, you guys would already be dating. he just wants sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): it sounds like this guy is just stringing you along and buddying you up so he can try to get you to have sex with him without having a relationship. DONT DO IT! he doesnt sound like the right guy. i know hes cute and all but if he wanted to have a relationship, you guys would already be dating. he just wants sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Hi yet more developments - in work yesterday we wer getting on really well he asked me if he could have a hug before i went which obviously i agreed to! then we spent the whole night texting each other just random things like what we had been up to n stuff like tht he told me he really enjoyed work yesterday coz we wer on the same shift! arrghh! one min i think he likes me then the next i dnt! i wish i had the confidence to just tell him how im feeling about the whole situation!
ps thnks for the 1st reply
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